I feel like a kid on a fresh-snow Christmas morning … it’s my first snow day here in my new home of Portland, and my son’s 19th birthday. Life is good.
Sending out a visual of beauty and hope. May Love walk by you today … and may she stay awhile.
It’s been awhile, so I thought I’d offer a word. Here we are on the verge of one of my favorite holidays, at least it has been the last couple of decades. My dear son, John, was born 19 years ago tomorrow, so Valentine’s Day has taken on special meaning for me ever since. The world could stand to celebrate Love, too; I mean it IS what makes the world go around!
Of course not everyone agrees. Maybe in theory we all do, but some of our behavior doesn’t quite match up. At least that’s what I’m noticing lately. To be fair, we’re all under a tremendous amount of stress these days. World politics, environmental concerns, war and general unrest among people and populations … and what about the price of eggs?!
I had a mentor once that reminded me to be careful about the shoes I wear each day. “Dancing shoes or combat boots, Lisa … you decide.” I don’t think his message was personal, but maybe it was. Or, maybe he just noticed the ridiculous number of pairs I own. I showed a colleague my shoe closet the other day and she smartly asked if I wear them all. “Of course not, I replied, … but aren’t they fabulous?” I’m quite sure she was less than impressed, and maybe even a little concerned. But if owning too many shoes is my worst vice, well, then I think I’m doing okay.
In truth, dancing is a lot more fun than hand-to-hand combat. Not that I’d know, thanks be to God. I do like kickboxing though and I think I need to do more of it to ward off the stress of being a human being on planet Earth in 2025. Will you join me? Kickboxing or dancing or something that doesn’t involve taking your frustration out on your fellow humans, animals, or any other sentient beings. Thanks for considering.
This is the longest, darkest night of the year. I don’t know how this night is showing up for you, but for me, I have things to celebrate, and things to grieve. Grief comes first … unfortunately it always does. Hard things first … “get them out of the way, before they get in your way,” I say. My griefs this day are many, if I sit long enough for them to all filter in. The one I am willing to share tonight is about the death of a Dear One on my life path. Eric was the Music Director of the first church I ever served in a pastoral role. He was a Gentle Giant, which is NOT to say that he was a big man with a shrinking violet exterior … no, he was bigger than life … a big presence in body, spirit, mind, emotion, voice and behavior, BUT he had a very tender, sweet heart. Quite a deadly combination for a young Pastor; but it worked, as he could’ve been my very own father and so we had the funny, odd, and blessed relationship that works, when it works. Which, for Eric and me generally did. I loved him, dearly. I just learned yesterday that he is no longer on this Earth. A poor shame for us all … for sure.
My favorite (sharable) story about Eric was when, upon my departure as Pastoral Intern from our small San Francisco-based church, be presented me with a parting gift … a small match-box car, a Mustang convertible, that he had painted red with nail polish (because he could not acquire one in time to give me on my appointed last day of service). This thoughtful and funny action made me cry in front of everyone (and I don’t cry easily, people).
See, you don’t even need the back story to get this … right?! What a gem the world has lost this week. Then again, he’s holding court in heaven with Jesus, God, the Holy Spirit, and every other demi-God behind the veiled curtain, so we’re all going to be okay, Okay?!
As God would have it, one of my blessings this week is that I hired a new Music Director (at a different church, in a different city … my fourth or fifth church depending on how you count them), and this is fabulous news indeed. Ben’s a young man, 35-ish years old, a great age-foil to dear Eric who was probably solidly into his eighties when he died this week. So, young Ben has lots of time to become as awesome as his predecessor. I’ll pray for him … it’s a tall task.
I’m lighting a Yule Log tonight to celebrate this Winter Solstice evening. The Light is coming back, people. Praise be to God. Hold tight, my friends. Life is good, God is good, and we will ALL be okay. More than okay. I’m praying …
Sermon preached at Tualatin Presbyterian Church, November 10, 2024
Just a few weeks ago, I said goodbye to a church that I really loved.
Truth be told, I said goodbye to five church homes a few weeks ago.
Rather than explain exactly how this could be so,
let’s just say I’m a ‘church junkie’ and leave it at that.
While I come with deep gratitude and joy to serve Tualatin Presbyterian Church,
I also come to you as someone who has endured much sadness in my life,
including some very recent and big upsets.
Not unlike a lot of us gathered here this morning …
Anyway (back to my story), in one of those worshipping communities,
the minister offered a simple, public blessing at the end of the service.
My colleague Rev Heather, and the community gathered at St. John’s,
knew I was moving away from the San Francisco Bay Area
and would not worship with them much going forward,
so Heather kindly offered a ‘charge and blessing’ for me personally.
Right at that moment (while I was slightly everyone’s focal point),
my cell phone called out ‘GPS Lost’ (Global Positioning System LOST).
As a professional worship leader,
I obviously know the importance of turning off my phone
when I enter a place of worship (and I know that I had done that).
Needless to say, my phone didn’t agree with me.
It was startling and slightly embarrassing, but I chose to laugh it off,
as did most everyone in the room, I think.
I figure these digital devices are part of our world
and so maybe they too need a voice.
Maybe God even speaks through them?
As I was leaving worship my other colleague at St. John’s,
Rev. Chris said to me,
“Lisa, ‘GPS Lost’ will preach!
I don’t know if you’re going to use it, but I am!”
I laughed and assured him that I most definitely would.
Being a woman of my word, here I am.
Walking out of church to my car that day, I thought ahead …
knowing I would be preaching my very first sermon as your pastor
just five days after a contentious and divided national election
here in America.
While I wasn’t yet aware of the lectionary scripture passages for today,
nor exactly how our election would go specifically,
I thought GPS Lost was a good opening story.
At the time, I thought I knew …
(somewhat) what was going to happen this past week,
not the particulars of course, but I thought I knew.
I didn’t … and GPS Lost does still preach.
Approximately half of Americans, and countless people the world over
feel that their GPS, their Global Positioning System is Lost.
I would contend that people on both sides
of the election results feel this way:
most Harris supporters feel lost that they didn’t win and
many Trump supporters feel lost by our country’s
traditional form of government
and in this state of lostness voted their candidate into office,
a man who tells us that he will challenge and maybe change
much of our historic ways of governing.
People on both ‘sides’ have views on the best way to proceed,
and yet I think every last one of us, if we are honest with ourselves,
must admit that the path forward,
the one that will play out,
is truly unclear.
Going back to my opening story,
even when we think we know how something is going to go,
we aren’t always right, clearly.
I suppose you’ve heard the phrase, “Make plans, and watch God laugh.”
If you come to church today feeling lost, please take heart,
because you have come to a place
where you have a chance to be found.
Now, I won’t and we (those gathered here in person) won’t,
solve your lostness, but we will point to the One who will.
As in God, Jesus, the Holy Spirit.
So, please take heart.
If you feel lost, I hope and pray you’ll feel at least a little more found
by the end of this service.
Our Scripture readings today are fascinatingly appropriate.
I’m amazed at how often that happens, but it very often does.
At first glance they are not comforting stories, at least not on the surface.
So if you unready feel uncomfortable, I ask you to please hang in with me
because it’s going to get a little more uncomfortable before it gets better.
I promise, I’ll do my best to leave us on a hopeful, but honest, ending note.
Now, traditionally, in the way I was taught to preach,
a minister focuses on one text out of the four offered
in the Common Lectionary,
a calendar that walks us through the major themes
and stories of the Christian Bible.
Today, I am not going to do that,
because each of the passages you just heard deserves some air-time.
This means we won’t dig very deep into any one of them,
but we will peel an outer layer or two of the onion on each.
In the first reading, we hear from the book of Ruth in our Hebrew Bible,
what we Christians call the Old Testament.
In it we hear a snippet of a story about Ruth, Naomi and Boaz.
There is so very much in this story that I would like to unpack,
but I am going to be very succinct here and just point out
that this story is about two vulnerable women who chose
to remain faithful to each other in the midst of considerable duress.
They found a way to work within a system in which they had virtually no power
by binding themselves to a man who can, and in fact does,
choose to come along side of them.
The result of this is that Obed,
the grandfather of the great King David is born.
One commentator I read this week said:
“Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers,
for thereby some have entertained the great-grandmother of a king.”
In the second reading, we hear from the Psalmist, who proclaims
“Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain.
Unless the Lord guards the city, the guard keeps watch in vain.”
I’m going to let that first verse of Psalm 127 speak for itself.
It is a word of tremendous hope, because what it says is God is in charge.
If we believe God loves us and wants what is best for us, always and in all ways,
then this is truly good news indeed.
Nothing other than the hand of God will build the house or keep the city
… at least in the end.
The third scripture passage we hear is from the Gospel of Mark.
This gospel overarchingly seeks to provide a theological record
of Jesus as a mighty miracle worker.
In today’s particular story, Jesus is found teaching his disciples,
about what it means to give sacrificially.
In it we meet the poor widow who gave to the treasury two mites
(the equivalent of one penny), which was all that she had.
Mind you, her contribution didn’t touch the much larger gifts given by wealthier members of the gathered congregation,
but Jesus still lifts her up as the most generous.
I would contend that Jesus did this for a few reasons:
1. Jesus always notices the poor … be it poor monetarily, poor in spirit (i.e. the grieving widow), poor in social location which was and unfortunately still is women and the disenfranchised of every ilk.
2. Jesus always illuminates things hard for us to see or hear or know straight away. He uncovers things for us. We humans might see two little coins and think, what is that? That won’t pay the bills. It’s a nice gesture and all, but that won’t solve the financial needs of much. And Jesus says, look again. Do you know who She is? Do you know what She has? Giving all she has, while not much by the world’s standards, is A LOT. Do not, humans, look down on her for her seemingly modest giving.
3. Jesus upends our world … pointing out that the last shall be first.
Now, there are a few additional things I need to unpack further about this story,
particularly because after worship today, all members of this church
are going to be given a pledge card for 2025
asking each of you to proclaim what monies you plan to contribute
to this church starting January 1, 2025.
Next Sunday, we will ceremoniously dedicate these cards in worship.
An important side note, if you can’t quite prayerfully consider what you wish to contribute to the ministry of this church by next Sunday,
we’ll still accept your pledge in the weeks following 😉
Because I referenced this Markian gospel passage in my stewardship letter to you,
I need to be sure that I help illuminate a few things,
which may still not be apparent about this story, The Widow’s Mite.
Jesus is not necessarily saying that the widow is doing the right thing.
He is definitely lifting her up as a positive example,
but not because he wants her to be in this position,
at least insofar as her financial contribution may leave her further destitute
That would be the antithesis of who Jesus is.
He is never about the widow being further diminished
by the worldly powers that be.
Jesus is simply making an observation.
While her two mites (or one penny) may seem small and insignificant,
she is giving her all.
That is what he is lifting up.
And, he is placing that alongside of the fact that those who appear to be giving much more
are not giving their all.
They are giving only a portion of what they have.
They are not giving sacrificially.
They are giving out of their comfort,
and, if we attach this action with the story that precedes it,
some of them feel lofty about tossing those big dollars
into the kitty in an ostentatious way.
They like the accolades they receive, because we all like to feel big and important.
This doesn’t make them ‘bad people.’
Jesus is emphatically saying I don’t care about that sort of thing (their posturing).
So, where’s the Good News?
It’s possible that the ‘widows’ here in my midst feel taken advantage of
and the ‘wealthy’ feel ashamed.
That’s not a good way to go home today.
We already have enough pain in our lives.
Well, here it is … here’s the Good News.
Jesus loves and forgives and welcomes new behavior from all of us.
Whether we give sacrificially or comfortably out of our abundance.
He is (as he always will) inviting us to see what we couldn’t see before.
He is (as he always will) inviting us to straighten out this messy human world
and its broken systems so that rampant oppression will cease to exist.
He is (as he always will) saying open your eyes, my people.
Open your ears, my people.
Open your mind, my people.
Open your heart, my people.
I love you.
Do better by one another and you will experience what it looks like to have MY LOVE REIGN
It may not appear so on this day, if you and I are like-minded. But Love does always win.
Always. Always. Always.
I have seen it so many times, in so many ways. From the hospital beds of the dying, from kitchen tables full of the grieving, from court rooms where justice was not served (yes, even then), from church fellowship halls with only a few tired disciples struggling to find the energy to go on. And on and on it goes. LOVE STILL WINS.
And it will today. Because if you and I are like-minded, like-hearted, you … yes, YOU reading this message …. will go out and share love. To the person beside you. At the grocery store. While pumping gas into your car. As you walk your dog. When you stop to park your bike. You will offer it with softness and kindness. You will love mercy and kindness and walk humbly with your God. Because you know that God is Love Incarnate. God’s Light will light yours. We aren’t the Little Match Girl whose light has (temporarily) blown out . God’s light is eternal and outlasts everything.
Preached at Two Rock Valley Presbyterian and Tomales Presbyterian, September 1, 2024; Based on Song of Solomon 2:8-13 and James 1:17-27
Song of Solomon 2:8-13 (NRSV) – Springtime Rhapsody
8 The voice of my beloved! Look, he comes, leaping upon the mountains, bounding over the hills. 9 My beloved is like a gazelle or a young stag. Look, there he stands behind our wall, gazing in at the windows, looking through the lattice. 10 My beloved speaks and says to me: “Arise, my love, my fair one, and come away, 11 for now the winter is past, the rain is over and gone. 12 The flowers appear on the earth; the time of singing has come, and the voice of the turtledove is heard in our land. 13 The fig tree puts forth its figs, and the vines are in blossom; they give forth fragrance. Arise, my love, my fair one, and come away.
James 1:17-27 (The Message) – Act on what you hear.
16-18 So, my very dear friends, don’t get thrown off course. Every desirable and beneficial gift comes out of heaven. The gifts are rivers of light cascading down from the Father of Light. There is nothing deceitful in God, nothing two-faced, nothing fickle. He brought us to life using the true Word, showing us off as the crown of all his creatures.
19-21 Post this at all the intersections, dear friends: Lead with your ears, follow up with your tongue, and let anger straggle along in the rear. God’s righteousness doesn’t grow from human anger. So throw all spoiled virtue and cancerous evil in the garbage. In simple humility, let our gardener, God, landscape you with the Word, making a salvation-garden of your life.
22-24 Don’t fool yourself into thinking that you are a listener when you are anything but, letting the Word go in one ear and out the other. Act on what you hear! Those who hear and don’t act are like those who glance in the mirror, walk away, and two minutes later have no idea who they are, or what they look like. 25 But whoever catches a glimpse of the revealed counsel of God — the free life! — even out of the corner of his eye, and sticks with it, is no distracted scatterbrain, but a man or woman of action. That person will find delight and affirmation in the action.
26-27 Anyone who sets himself up as “religious” by talking a good game is self-deceived. This kind of religion is hot air, and only hot air. Real religion, the kind that passes muster before God, is this: Reach out to the homeless and loveless in their plight, and guard against corruption from the godless world.
Hold on, my very dear friends.
Please.
Don’t get thrown off course.
These are words from the book of James, and God, of course.
And it’s good counsel.
The reading Mary just recited comes from a book of the Bible we don’t often read …
the Song of Solomon.
It’s a curious pick for this week, but it does show up in the Revised Common Lectionary,
the prescribed calendar for walking through the major stories and themes of the Bible.
I find it a curious pick though, as maybe you did, for a couple of reasons.
The first is that it’s talking about Springtime, and, news-flash we’re headed into fall.
The text reads: “for now the winter is past and the rain is over and gone.”
I had a brief conversation with the grocery store clerk yesterday
and while we were both thrilled that fall is on the way,
she expressed some trepidation about the rains that will follow
shortly after the glorious days of fall color amid the sunshine.
Now, Song of Solomon does right itself somewhat
when it states that “the time of singing has come.”
That does align with our day. Amen?!
The Author must’ve known about Gary and his jazz band!!
We are so fortunate here, and at our Sister-Church, to have the gift of amazing music.
EVERY Sunday!
It’s a Good thing … “a Godly thing” to quote Alice Virginia (a dear faith mother of mine).
Thank you, Gary, Diane, Margaret, David, the Men’s Trio, our Choirs, and Handbell Ensemble.
I’ve surely forgotten to thank someone here,
and assuming so, chalk it up to a tired Lisa and the fact
that we have so many musicians in our midst that it’s hard to count them all.
But back to our Scripture.
The other thing that is a bit odd about the reading selection from the Song of Solomon
is that it speaks of romantic love.
This is not something we hear a lot about in the Bible, at least not so directly.
But here it is … just hear the last line again: Arise, my love, my fair one, and come away.
I remember when I was in seminary being thrilled to find this passage …
I suppose I’d heard it before, but I went looking for it, or something like it.
I was at a ceramic painting party, it was a bridal shower for a friend,
and as I recall I selected a platter or a large bowl to make for her.
Becca was marrying one of my dearest friends in seminary
and I knew that she and Scott needed some Scripture on their wedding gift
(I mean, but of course, they were seminarians!)
so I went searching for something appropriate. And here it was.
I wonder if they still have my master-piece?
They’ve got two nearly fully grown kids now, so I suspect it’s stashed away in the attic
along with their kiddos hand molded animal figurines and other family heirlooms 😉
Anyway, it’s a tad unusual to hear of romantic love in the Bible, but it’s in there.
Some people think the Bible is a bit bland, a bit esoteric, a bit obscure and irrelevant,
but I’m here to tell you it’s the most amazing Love Story that was ever written.
I mean I’m supposed to say that as a minister, but truly, IT IS!
I’m looking at a group of people whom I know and love and some of you
are in long, long marriages … what’s the longest 62, 64, 75 years … holy smokes!
Well those are long time periods, but do they compare to nearly 1,000 pages of writing
in the Old Testament or the stories of 14 generations of people?
That’s God’s Love Story for humanity, and that my friends is some tenacity.
Most of us would’ve gotten thoroughly worn out by that kind of sordid love affair.
But not God.
We humans are an ornery bunch, not prone to coming alongside even Divine Love so readily
and so God has to jump into our world in the life of Jesus Christ to win us over.
Which is why the biblical passage I just read from the book of James is a great companion
to the reading from Song of Solomon.
It implores us to ACT on what we HEAR.
And, it counsels us strongly on curbing any anger we may experience,
(which frankly if you or I were God in the scenario I just recounted,
you know 1,000 pages and 14 generations,
we might need to squelch a little ire).
I came across a quote attributed to Thomas Jefferson, which is sage advice:
“When angry, count to 10 before you speak. If very angry, count to 100.”
None of you have probably ever been that mad,
but just in case you find yourself in those shoes at some point, it’s decent counsel,
and exquisitely aligned with our text from the book of James.
When I remember to heed this message, my life goes more smoothly.
And a confession (which some of you already know):
sometimes I need to count a good bit past 100.
I walked away from a potential argument the other day for more than an hour,
which if I did my math correctly means counting to approximately 3,600.
The other thing I find that can be helpful in these situations is the use of humor.
Some of you know that I am currently living with an older adoptive ‘auntie’ named Barbara
… well, when she does something she wishes she hadn’t, say drop something on the floor,
she quips, “and for my next trick …” I just adore that, and it always makes us smile.
But back to the good counsel of Acting on what we Hear.
I love the way Eugene Peterson translates it …
“Lead with your ears, … THEN follow up with your tongue …”
Listen first. Listen to understand. Listen to let the other person’s story sit within you.
Until you’ve done that, there is no room for talking.
How would you know what to say?
Why would we think that anything we have to say will land well with the other,
especially if we’re in an argument, if we haven’t first listened well?
Again, listen here my very dear friends, the Bible does not disappoint!
In addition to being the world’s greatest Love Story
it imparts very wise counsel for our sometimes very ordinary lives!
I learned something new about the book of James at our session meeting this past week
(thank you, Kip!).
Kip once did some studies with a Muslim man who shared with him that the book of James
is the only book in the Christian Bible that is friendly toward,
or at least not offensive to people of other faiths.
I may have that slightly wrong,
but the overarching idea is that there is some interfaith openness here,
which is a beautiful thing in my way of thinking.
As many of you know, I’ve spent much of my career in positions
where an interfaith dialogue is a requirement,
and I find this rich and wonderful.
And, as a Christian minister, I LOVE that our Good Book welcomes that.
But the thing that the book of James (attributed to the writings of Jesus’ very own brother)
is probably most well-known for is the notion that, as the phrase goes:
‘Faith without works is dead.’
Some people find this very helpful,
especially, I suspect, those of us that appreciate a little practical advice.
Act on what you Hear, as we’ve already summed up today’s lesson,
is a good thing to remember.
Then again, the notion of Faith without Works flies in the face
of our very deep Christian understanding that you can’t earn God’s love,
and so working your tail off for it is a bit of a fool’s errand.
This is yet another demonstration of how rich and wonderful the Bible truly is.
It reminds us that we are so beloved that God would chase us
through hundreds of pages, recounting story after story!
Clearly, we (as a whole lot of us anyway) don’t appear to try to earn our salvation very well,
so it’s a darn good thing that we don’t have to.
That said, it doesn’t hurt when we participate in a congenial fashion. Does it?
I had a beautiful experience yesterday …
I stopped at a tea house to work on my sermon and stumbled upon a couple
who were trying to help a Monarch butterfly escape it’s entrapment inside.
The tenderness of the gesture drew me in …
it took us awhile, but we eventually got the task done.
This is a sweet example of acting on one’s faith …
living consistently with doing good by another and acting with patient perseverance.
This whole experience was made all the sweeter when after the blessed release
we were able to applaud each other for caring enough and making the time to help.
Eugene Peterson’s translation of the book of James refers to a person
who glances in a mirror but then immediately forgets what they look like.
This can be easy to do amidst the hustle and bustle of life.
Basic mirrors, even if we happen to be in front of one, don’t see our souls …
which are so much deeper, so much more interesting, and eternal.
To see with this depth, we sometimes need to be the Christ mirror for each other and say:
“when I see you, I see compassion, bravery, humor, creativity, loyalty, forgiveness,
endurance, wisdom, abundance and yes, okay, sometimes anger and self-willed deafness,
but even then, I see the potential in you that God sees.”
Blog post on August 15, 2024, the Day of the Assumption of Mary
If you haven’t heard of today’s holiday, the Assumption of Mary, you’re not alone. This Protestant Pastor hadn’t either. Luckily, I have a Catholic friend who lives in Paris and has the day off of work, so she told me all about it. On Aug. 15, Catholics around the world mark the solemnity of the Assumption of Mary, commemorating the end of her earthly life and assumption into heaven. Sounds like a good thing to celebrate … I mean that amazing woman didn’t have the easiest life on earth, ya know. Besides, when don’t the Parisian’s get a national holiday … especially after hosting an amazing Olympic Games?! God is good … just like I always tell you.
I am happy to report that ‘All Is Well’ in the World. Now, if all isn’t well in your world (notice the lower case ‘w’), then just wait a few minutes and to quote my dear ancient friend Julian of Norwich (from her tome, Revelations of Divine Love) ‘all shall be well, all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.’
It’s all a matter of perspective, I suppose. From where I sit (today at least), Life looks pretty good. I’m gazing on the beautiful Lake Tahoe, with it’s blue/green waves lapping on the shore beneath me. There are a few white caps, but for the most part it is serene and lovely, ringed with mountain ranges, which have been surrounding this beautiful body of water for ‘forever-and-a-day’ (a very scientific word coined by me personally, in my less than scientific view of the world).
Then again, I spoke with both of my parents this afternoon … they are young (mid-seventies), but it sounds like things really go south as we age. Dad claims that ‘Spam Risk’ is his best friend (or at least that’s who he gets the most phone calls from); and Mom failed the computer test her bank set up to see if she’s Human (apparently not … Lord, God Almighty … that’s a bitter pill for both of us). As for me, my one and only child arrived in Kansas to start college. I’m not there with him today, but I sent Toto to scope things out for me. I haven’t heard back yet … small black dogs aren’t always the most reliable informants. I’m just saying.
But how about you? I hope things are ‘Woefully Wonderful.’ Rumor has it, you could use a good day. My best advice … follow these little ducks … Huddle Up, my peeps! Life is always best when you’ve got your posse surrounding you.
Well, what a day, … what a week, … what a time we’re in. If you follow me (Ha!), it’s been awhile since I’ve chimed in on anything …
I have a friend at church who reminded me recently that it is smart to listen, more then talk. I’ve been binging on music from the musical Hamilton lately and there’s a character in the show that says the same thing to Hamilton … so apparently this is age-old advice (“Talk less, smile more”). I agree, … except that I’m a preacher for a living, so that doesn’t work very well. Lord help me. Lord, help us all.
What are we to do? We’re starving for some positive attention, most of us, anyway, … I think. If we find a kind soul willing to listen, don’t we want to talk? I mean we’re weathering a really crazy world right now. A very crazy world. Extroverts, and introverts too, need to process things a bit with kind, trust-worthy souls … hopefully you have a few in your personal world.
I was talking with a friend the other day on the phone and for some reason I thought of God (you know the old grandfather-type in the sky) and I said I think He’s sitting up there from on high looking down on us like a bunch of ants, or cars (you know, like when you are in an airplane that is descending or ascending and you can make out some ‘individual’ entities). I picture God looking down from above and thinking to Himself (or Herself), “Oh dear God, what have I set into motion by creating these little creatures?! Look at how violently they are crashing into each other! Oh no, what did I do? How can I help? This is a disaster!!”
Well, I (Lisa) can only pray fervently that God has a plan for this … for all of us. I am a minister after all and I do have to have a little faith. I try anyway. Most days.
My beautiful son is 18 years old. It’s a travesty. I hate it … I know he needs to grow up and really I love seeing how amazing he is as a young man, but it’s hard and scary to let a kid go. So, being the feisty mom that I am I reminded him last night that even though he is 18 and even though he is about to move across country and go to college, he still doesn’t know ANYTHING. Like the good young man I raised him to be he said, “Yes, I know, mom.” Of course he knows plenty of things and I know that he knows things that I don’t understand … truth be told he can run circles around me. Well, only physically, but that’s because I have a hip injury from a fall at work … but I won’t go down that rabbit hole.
Truth is … we all need some good friends, a Good God, and a whole heck of a lot of faith if we’re going to make our way though this tight spot we’re in. So hang on friends. And look for friends anywhere they might come. Just look at these cuties I met along my drive home yesterday. Notice their eagerness, and dare I say wisdom? They know they need connection. Maybe they think I have food, … but still there’s wisdom in that, right?!