And Love walks by …

I feel like a kid on a fresh-snow Christmas morning … it’s my first snow day here in my new home of Portland, and my son’s 19th birthday. Life is good.

Sending out a visual of beauty and hope. May Love walk by you today … and may she stay awhile.

Peace out for now.

Dancing Shoes or Combat Boots, my people?

It’s been awhile, so I thought I’d offer a word. Here we are on the verge of one of my favorite holidays, at least it has been the last couple of decades. My dear son, John, was born 19 years ago tomorrow, so Valentine’s Day has taken on special meaning for me ever since. The world could stand to celebrate Love, too; I mean it IS what makes the world go around!

Of course not everyone agrees. Maybe in theory we all do, but some of our behavior doesn’t quite match up. At least that’s what I’m noticing lately. To be fair, we’re all under a tremendous amount of stress these days. World politics, environmental concerns, war and general unrest among people and populations … and what about the price of eggs?!

I had a mentor once that reminded me to be careful about the shoes I wear each day. “Dancing shoes or combat boots, Lisa … you decide.” I don’t think his message was personal, but maybe it was. Or, maybe he just noticed the ridiculous number of pairs I own. I showed a colleague my shoe closet the other day and she smartly asked if I wear them all. “Of course not, I replied, … but aren’t they fabulous?” I’m quite sure she was less than impressed, and maybe even a little concerned. But if owning too many shoes is my worst vice, well, then I think I’m doing okay.

In truth, dancing is a lot more fun than hand-to-hand combat. Not that I’d know, thanks be to God. I do like kickboxing though and I think I need to do more of it to ward off the stress of being a human being on planet Earth in 2025. Will you join me? Kickboxing or dancing or something that doesn’t involve taking your frustration out on your fellow humans, animals, or any other sentient beings. Thanks for considering.

Peace out for now, my friends.

Winter Solstice 2024

This is the longest, darkest night of the year. I don’t know how this night is showing up for you, but for me, I have things to celebrate, and things to grieve. Grief comes first … unfortunately it always does. Hard things first … “get them out of the way, before they get in your way,” I say. My griefs this day are many, if I sit long enough for them to all filter in. The one I am willing to share tonight is about the death of a Dear One on my life path. Eric was the Music Director of the first church I ever served in a pastoral role. He was a Gentle Giant, which is NOT to say that he was a big man with a shrinking violet exterior … no, he was bigger than life … a big presence in body, spirit, mind, emotion, voice and behavior, BUT he had a very tender, sweet heart. Quite a deadly combination for a young Pastor; but it worked, as he could’ve been my very own father and so we had the funny, odd, and blessed relationship that works, when it works. Which, for Eric and me generally did. I loved him, dearly. I just learned yesterday that he is no longer on this Earth. A poor shame for us all … for sure.

My favorite (sharable) story about Eric was when, upon my departure as Pastoral Intern from our small San Francisco-based church, be presented me with a parting gift … a small match-box car, a Mustang convertible, that he had painted red with nail polish (because he could not acquire one in time to give me on my appointed last day of service). This thoughtful and funny action made me cry in front of everyone (and I don’t cry easily, people).

See, you don’t even need the back story to get this … right?! What a gem the world has lost this week. Then again, he’s holding court in heaven with Jesus, God, the Holy Spirit, and every other demi-God behind the veiled curtain, so we’re all going to be okay, Okay?!

As God would have it, one of my blessings this week is that I hired a new Music Director (at a different church, in a different city … my fourth or fifth church depending on how you count them), and this is fabulous news indeed. Ben’s a young man, 35-ish years old, a great age-foil to dear Eric who was probably solidly into his eighties when he died this week. So, young Ben has lots of time to become as awesome as his predecessor. I’ll pray for him … it’s a tall task.

I’m lighting a Yule Log tonight to celebrate this Winter Solstice evening. The Light is coming back, people. Praise be to God. Hold tight, my friends. Life is good, God is good, and we will ALL be okay. More than okay. I’m praying …

Peace Out for now.

Rev. Robechek

The Life Waiting for Us

Based on Isaiah 40:1-11;

Preached at Tualatin Presbyterian Church on December 8, 2024

This time of year is interesting … lovely and challenging …

paradoxical in the way life often is.

In our day to day lives, this season is a time in which parties,

gift buying, decorating, preparing and sending Christmas cards,

can have us spinning so fast that we can hardly catch up with ourselves.

The notion of sitting around waiting,

which is what the Church invites us to do during the season of Advent,

seems utterly absurd.

In the church, however, we do wait.

There is of course great anticipation in this season

that leads up to the birth of the Christ child,

and yet really the focus in these weeks of December

is to be attentive to our experience of waiting.

Franciscan friar and author Richard Rohr says that

“All Christian history lives out a deliberate emptiness.

Perfect fullness is always yet to come.

“Come, Lord Jesus” is your Advent prayer.

Living in this way, with an understanding that we await fulfillment,

leaves the field of life wide open

and especially open to grace and a future created by God

rather than by us.”

So, what does a future created by God look like?

Isaiah proclaims that we are to be comforted.

That punishment for our sins has ended.

Now is a time of restoration and renewal.

God promises to speak tenderly to us.

Our shortcomings will be forgiven, and we will be repaired two-fold.

The prophet Isaiah tells us that God will feed his flock like a shepherd,

God will gather us, like little lambs and cradle us,

gently leading us home.

Waiting with the assurance that God is active in our lives,

and capable and desiring of setting all things right in our world

can make waiting easier.

And yet waiting in this way does not mean

we are invited to take a passive,

“Oh, God will take care of it all,” stance.

God is holding us and all of our lives, to be sure,

but we have an important, engaged role to play.

Isaiah tells us that our part in all this is to prepare the way,

to make straight the path for our God.

Every valley shall be lifted up

and every mountain and hill be made low …

we are invited to make a smooth highway

for God to come straight away.

The call here is for some major road construction.

We’re not talking minor repairs,

like filling in the potholes and repairing curbs,

but rather a serious personal transformation of the landscape of our lives.

This is not always a joyful, easy experience.

I came across a story

about the evangelist Billy Graham and his wife Ruth

being on a long road trip in which they encountered

a good deal of major road construction –

one lane roads, major detours, and long waits.

Probably this is foreign to most of you.

At the end of it all they saw a road sign, which read:

“End of construction. Thanks for your patience.”

Ruth apparently quipped,

“That’s what I’d like written on my tombstone!

… end of construction … thanks for your patience!”

Besides her humor, there’s a lot of grace in that statement.

I don’t know about you, but I am seldom patient

when it comes to enduring major construction on the roads,

and even less so when the construction is on me personally.

If readying ourselves for God to move in and through us easily

means filling in our valleys and flattening our high places,

then clearly, we are in for a lifetime of work.

This being the case, we might take heed of a quote a ran across

attributed to an Arizona physician Dr. Michael McGriffy who said,

“Blessed are the flexible, for they shall not be bent out of shape.”

The life waiting for us is not necessarily the life that we see ahead of us.

Sometimes what comes by surprise is a huge blessing …

so amazing we could never have imagined it.

Other times the surprise is anything but gift-worthy,

making us question how God could allow this thing to happen.

Either way, as Joseph Campbell says,

“we must be willing to get rid of the life we planned,

so as to have the life waiting for us.”

A little story from my own life to illuminate this.

When I was 25 years old, I had the opportunity to move from Columbus, Ohio to Seattle, Washington.

I would be joining a small insurance brokerage firm

where I would be the apprentice to a man with a lifetime of experience

helping companies of all sizes select and acquire

the best benefit plans for their employees.

Excited with this opportunity,

… well probably more with a new life in a new city …

but anyway, I packed all my worldly possessions and headed west.

Concurrent with this trip,

I decided to make another big transition in my life.

I decided to return to Church,

after nearly a decade of having walked away from ‘organized religion.’

You see, I was an extremely idealistic teen

and as such was deeply turned off by the dichotomy I found

in churches … the sometimes vast difference between

what people said they believed and what they did instead.

On the first Sunday in town, I went to Queen Anne Presbyterian,

a small neighborhood church in the part of town where I had landed.

As you good church people would expect,

I met some very nice people there and

had a sweet first experience back into the fold.

Which was a huge blessing to me, not just for that one Sunday,

But because it introduced me to people that helped me through

yet another big transition in my life.

Later that first month in Seattle, my boss,

the man I had moved across country to go work for and learn from,

informed me that he was leaving our small firm

to be the Director of Human Resources for our largest client.

This left me without a job.

Stunned and feeling quite alone in this new city,

I surprised myself by calling the pastor at QAPC.

Over the course of several weeks and multiple conversations,

Jeff and I discussed what God might be calling me to do at this juncture.

After getting to know me a bit, he asked me a question

that hit me like a two-by-four:

“Lisa, have you ever thought about going into the ministry?”

I laughed in his face.

Hard.

Because, No! I had never considered that.

Remember, I had left the church for a decade.

Once we got over this kerfuffle,

I asked him what prompted such an outlandish suggestion.

He said, “well, you seem to have a heart for helping people, Lisa.

I notice that you’re very attentive in your interactions with others,

and you clearly have faith …

I mean you moved across the country all by yourself,

knowing no one here ahead of time.”

Now this was a very kind assessment,

but if Jeff had been a social worker or a therapist or a doctor,

it’s quite possible that I wouldn’t be standing before you today …

I would have become some other type of professional, maybe?

God certainly does move in mysterious ways.

Maybe it’s just me, but making my way through life

sometimes feels like driving at night in the fog.

We can only see as far as our headlights reach,

but as you’ve undoubtedly heard and experienced,

we CAN make the whole trip that way.”

I wonder if we can find peace in this?

If I can stay present in the moment

and trust that God is laying out the whole trip,

a deep abiding peace comes over me.

This usually catches me completely off guard.

This kind of peace is never manufactured by me,

but only received through God’s grace.

These moments may be few and far between,

but we can encourage our capacity for experiencing peace.

And this does not mean that we must permanently step outside

the hustle and bustle of this time of year.

Experiencing peace does not require us to be in a place

with no noise, trouble, or hard work.

True peace is to be amid these things and still be calm in your heart.

And Isaiah, in this passage that starts with

“Comfort, O Comfort, my people”

is inviting us to trust in the One who can do this for us.

This Sunday, we celebrate the coming

of the birth of the Prince of Peace.

If we had lived before this event,

the life waiting for us would have been unimaginable.

How could the Prince of Peace, the Almighty King

be born as a vulnerable infant in a lowly manger?

If we didn’t know the story,

would we have stopped to recognize God’s gift?

God doesn’t sky write (at least not typically in my experience),

but God does set a blazing star alight.

As in the one that shone brightly over the place

where our savior was born.

Are we calm enough, attentive enough to notice it

and then follow the stirrings in our hearts?

Similarly, can we trust these words of Isaiah,

that God sends us comfort, peace, a nurturing presence,

constancy of Word …

even as we do not see clear evidence of this playing out in our world?

I came across a quote I like (attributed to Edward Hays),

“Advent is a winter training camp for those who desire peace.”

A winter-time training camp would seem to be notorious

for hard conditions and thus require a tremendous commitment

to doing the work.

In the midst of all this,

can we remain open to the life waiting for us,

trusting the Prince of Peace who has come and will come again?

May it be so …

Amen.

Meditation on the Creche – Hanging of the Greens

Offered at Tualatin Presbyterian Church on December 1, 2024 (First Sunday of Advent)

So today I’m offering a brief reflection on the creche –

the scene we place before us during Advent to remind us

who is coming into our world, yet again – the Christ child.

The way we display it is often cute or tender –

I mean look at those little sheep?

Sometimes we even have a live baby we place in the manger –

which is really cool because that child can grow up

and put “played Baby Jesus” on their resume someday –

and who wouldn’t want to hire that person?

But let’s really take a look at the creche –

what it truly depicts if we’re being honest.

Our Savior was born to an unwed teenage mother

who’d been riding a donkey in the cold

led by a man who wasn’t, at least not officially, his dad.

Furthermore, said dad, or maybe it was mom,

forgot to make reservations ahead of time

so when they reached their destination

there was no room for them in the Inn.

Now maybe it was the Innkeeper’s fault –

it’s possible they guy overbooked himself,

… but being a decent human being,

and seeing a very pregnant young woman,

he shuffled his animals out of the way

so the blessed couple could rest for a while

out of the harsh night-time elements.

Now you don’t think the animals liked that very much, do you?

Animals generally don’t like it when a human baby comes into the mix.

I mean they’re first fiddle, or were, you know?

And then the adult humans have the audacity to place this ‘thing’

in their manger, their food trough?!

“What do you want us to do … eat the blessed child or what?!”

Alright, I hope your start in life was a little smoother than this.

For most of you it probably was.

But if you’ve lived long enough,

you may have had a Christmas like this one.

Probably it showed up a little different.

Probably there were no smelly animals,

maybe no unanticipated baby, or poorly planned road trip,

but undoubtedly, if you’ve lived through much life at all,

you’ve had a Christmas that didn’t quite live up to your expectations.

If this is so – and maybe especially if you’re currently

experiencing one of those occasions,

please take heart and know that you’re not alone.

It happened to the best of us, as in Jesus Christ

… and he lived through it.

What I’d like to point out, as a means of offering some hope,

is that there were a lot of miracles happening in this story we just read.

Obviously, the birth of the Christ Child, but all around him as well.

Like that Mother Mary said: “Let it be”

when she was told she was going to have a baby …

and for the life of her she probably couldn’t figure out

how that happened?!

And Joseph said “Yes” too.

I don’t think he knew how they’d gotten themselves

into this predicament either …

but nonetheless he agreed to take this pregnant young woman

all the way to Bethlehem and register them with the authorities

as husband and wife.  

The miracles keep coming.

In angels who appear in the heavenly sky;

on earth as shepherds watching over sheep;

and even in domesticated animals (slightly domesticated)

who don’t eat the blessed child and thus give him

at least a small head’s start in this crazy world of ours.

That’s a lot of Good News!

Your personal world has a lot of good news as well.

If it’s easy for you to see that – fantastic.

Embrace it with thanksgiving and joy.

Appreciate it. Really notice it. Savor it.

If you are not seeing the blessings around you …

maybe because there truly aren’t very many this year,

then quiet yourself, dig deep within,

and ask the sweet Baby Jesus to show you the way,

to light your way so that you can at least

find a little bread for the next few steps of your journey.

Most of you know that I drove a 26-foot rental truck

full of all my worldly belongings

from San Francisco to Portland last week.

It was a journey.

I could regale you with stories for hours,

but this isn’t the ‘Lisa Show’ – thanks be to God.

I will tell you one, as a means of illustration:

When I filled the truck with gas for the first time,

I had trouble getting the gas to flow

so I went in and spoke with a woman

who was working inside the truck stop.

She was happy to come take a look,

and of course had no trouble getting it to work.

I smiled at her and said,

“See, I guess I just needed to call in an expert.”

She smiled broadly, blew the tip of her finger

(with her hand making the symbol of a gun),

and with a great flourish put it back in it’s fake holster on her hip.

We shared a great laugh.

I loved this so much that while I stood in the cold pumping my gas,

I decided to go buy a coffee from her to thank her one last time

(this says an extra lot as there was a good national brand coffee shop right next door).

She continued her good-naturedness by poking fun

at how much hair spray she’d put on that morning

and so the fun between us continued.

As I left to start the rest of my journey north,

I felt such a sweet sense of gratitude for the presence of angels on earth.

There are so many of them, … so many of us.

I invite you to take notice of this as much as you can.

Offer a simple kindness and they will appear in such a vast multitude.

This is a simple way to lift your spirits, while lifting others …

and even if it only holds its magic for a few moments,

it will still have been completely worth your efforts.

You know who holds us in the midst of all of this, don’t you?!

A little baby boy, who was blessed enough that

his mom said yes and

his dad said yes and

even the animals said, okay we won’t eat him.

That’s some good news indeed.

May this Advent season start off for each of you

with blessing upon blessing.

And just remember … if you’re not feeling it this year …

ask the little guy, ask the Christ Child for some help seeing His Way.

Amen.

Christ the King Sunday

Based on Revelation 1:4b-8, preached at Tualatin Presbyterian Church on Sunday, November 24, 2024

Christ the King Sunday is an odd celebration in my way of thinking.

I personally don’t relate to Jesus as a King –

the Prince of Peace maybe –

but that mention of royalty conjures up someone more like

The Little Prince – a small fair-haired boy

who falls in love with a rose and is gentle in spirit.

Of course, this is problematic as well

because the historical Jesus was likely not fair skinned,

like the blonde cherub we meet in Antoine de Saint-Exupéry’s tale.

The placement of Christ the King Sunday is curious also,

for next week we will walk into Advent,

the season of waiting for the birth of the Christ child.

Today Christ is triumphant,

but in just a few weeks, we’ll sing happy birthday

to a baby boy born into very modest circumstances.

None of this makes much sense to me.

But then faith doesn’t make much sense generally anyway – does it?

Hopefully this line of thinking offers a decent segway

into the book of Revelation, from which I just read.

Some Evangelical Christians, not to mention lay people

(who only know the barest of facts about the Bible),

view this last book in our Holy Tome,

as a prediction of an apocalyptic end to our earthly realm.

And, at least on our worst days,

the state of our world might make this seem quite plausible.

If one’s attention is focused on world politics,

environmental disasters,

the widening economic gaps between people and the like –

it is easy to read into this common understanding

of the book of Revelation.

But, it is not accurate.

And you could take this as very good news, couldn’t you?

I mean unless you want the world to end, that is.

Look at this –

I’m bringing out the Good News early in my message today –

diverging from my usual method.

That alone is good news in and of itself – and slightly earth shattering! 😉

But, back to my statement denouncing a common

misunderstanding of the book of Revelation …

a thinking of it as prescriptive or prophetic of what is to come …

as in a fiery end to everything we know.

Some context may help …

the book of Revelation is commonly known

to be written by an apostle named John,

which is almost assuredly not John the disciple

who knew and loved Jesus in the flesh.

This particular John seems to have known, and been known by,

the communities to which he is writing …

the seven churches of Asia.

These communities are mentioned by name in the book of Revelation

and so this is a particular message, not a global one.

And yet, it is also symbolic …

the number 7 is used more than 50 times

in the book of Revelation alone and is representative

of divine wholeness …

being WHOLE, as in complete, healthy, actualized.

All of this is certainly a strong underpinning

of the message John wishes to convey.

In actuality, none of us humans know how to predict

what will happen in the future.

Of course, our worldly cultures encourage us to work toward that goal.

It’s what higher education is all about,

and the people who are well educated,

while occasionally mistreated in their early school years,

are ultimately lauded in our adult world.

You know:

  • The Doctor always KNOWS best, … knows what our ailment is, how it formed, and how to heal it.
  • The Attorney KNOWS how to proceed through the legal morass we’re in, or could be in some day (I’m thinking of Estate Law, which guides for our wishes beyond this lifetime).
  • The Building Contractor KNOWS how to build a structure so that it is safe and on budget (he or she sure better know how to do that anyway).
  • The Politician KNOWS how to guide our government so that he or she can lead and defend and take care of the country’s people (hopefully with a mindset inclusive of the entire world).
  • Even the Weather Man (or Woman) KNOWS what Mother Nature is planning to send our way on any given day … and for a week or so in advance?!

Yes, we humans build cultures that insist

on all of us predicting how life is going to unfold,

so it makes good sense that the book of Revelation

has been understood (with its seemingly ominous message) in this way.

The only problem is that’s not correct,

which maybe isn’t a problem at all …

Human beings as a general rule are an antsy, anxious bunch,

for understandable reasons.

Once we reach about 10 years of age or so (?) –

most any of us with any learnedness at all,

understand that we aren’t getting off this planet alive

and so we can be rather curious about how things are going to go down.

When’s the next shoe going to drop,

for surely shoes have dropped in the past, and they will again.

Whether we are fearful of our mortality or just vaguely aware of it,

most of us want some assurances of how our lives will unfold …

how things will go.

And, stepping away slightly from this most heavy topic … our DEATHS …

we all face little deaths continually as well, so we want to know:

  • When is the job going to vanish? Or my clients? vendors? customers?
  • When is the relationship going to fail … my marriage? With my best friend or family members?
  • When will my money run out? My health insurance? My resources of all kinds?
  • What illness or accident will I succumb to in the coming years?

All of this probably speaks to why this Sunday

we celebrate Christ as a King.

We NEED one!

We need someone with Royal authority to author and govern our lives.

Doesn’t it seem so?

I dated a man in college who was convinced

that Karl Marx’s statement commonly translated as

“Religion is an opiate for the masses”

– was all that religion was –

just a pipe dream for weak individuals.

You know, people who couldn’t make things happen

through their own smarts or capabilities.

My dear beau figured that religious people needed a savior

who would come to their rescue … because they were inept.

Suckers, I think he thought such folks were –

his girlfriend included.

Come to think of it, this might be why that relationship didn’t last 😉

But back to the book of Revelation … as I’ve said several times now,

it does not predict how things are going to go.

No rather it describes what is already happening –

which for us in this particular case is what happened in the past

for these churches, to whom the apostle John is writing.

John speaks a word of honest truth

about the troubles these communities are already facing –

including violence and persecution.

He wrote during the time of the Roman Empire

when Christians were persecuted for being followers of Christ.

Most scholars seem to think the particulars to which John is referencing

are likely local conflicts versus

a more generalized and widespread Roman campaign.

Just last week our dear pianist, Evan, expressed his concerns

for people in his community.

And surely these concerns, even fears, are based in a reality that

he has known personally

or witnessed in the lives of people that he deeply cares about.

This is something we should all be aware of and attentive to –

Christ, King or otherwise, calls us to this time and time again.

In response to similar and most reasonable fears

within the communities John is addressing,

(John the author of the book of Revelation),

he reports to a fear-struck people … from the heavenly realm

where the view is much larger and more hopeful.

While things might look bleak here on Earth,

they appear quite different from on high.

Even as suffering goes on all around us,

the victory of the saints (those who have gone on ahead of us)

is already accomplished in the heavenly realm.

Which is why it’s lovely that our first taste

of who this unstoppable King is

happens when John begins his greeting to his recipients

… in the name of the God, Christ Jesus,

who is and who was and who is to come.

This is a God who presides over all of time (past, present, and future)

and thus has a strong, capable handle on all things.

As such, John hopes to provide reassurance and thus confidence

to those who have fallen or are in fear of their current circumstances.

That is a King that would be helpful … a King from a different realm.

And that King is also the Christ Child who we still await,

yet again this year.

Jesus is the first born and, in his life, here

he brought heaven and earth together for all eternity.

A word about the Heart Banner hanging from the pulpit.

This piece of ‘art’ has the names of your personal saints,

living still and no longer among us.

The dear souls who have loved you into being,

maybe some with a hard edge to them,

but who have formed you all the same.

This banner is not particularly beautiful to the eye, but actually it is,

for woven into it is the cloud of witnesses significant

to those of you gathered here at Tualatin Presbyterian Church,

and so it is exquisite.

And the One who is and who was and who is to come,

Christ the King, holds all of them, and all of this life

in his very capable hands.

Thanks be.

Amen.

The Path of Life

Based on Daniel 12:1-3, Psalm 16, and Mark 13:1-8; Preached at Tualatin Presbyterian Church on November 17, 2024

I am amazed at how often the Common Lectionary,

the calendar I generally use to focus my sermon and worship planning,

offers the most fitting scripture passages week after week,

and today we have no departure from that.

Maybe this is because the Bible is so rich,

so all-encompassing that it knows how to meet us wherever we are

… that no matter the week or the circumstances,

our Good Book will speak to us. Always.

It’s quite impressive, really.

I do wish on this particular occasion,

when some here are still reeling over our country’s election results

and others are personally grieving the loss of loved ones, or their health and wellbeing,

I do wish our scripture selections were a bit more comforting today.

Did you notice all the apocalyptic themes in what we just heard?

And, who needs anything to feel more ominous or heavy at the moment.

Now maybe this doesn’t resonate with you.

I hope you feel safe, secure and hopeful, … if not about worldly events,

then at least about your personal Thanksgiving plans.

Thanksgiving is one of the most beautiful holidays,

in my humble opinion …

I mean what’s not to like about a celebration

involving gratitude, friends, and food.

Beyond that, I love that I don’t have any particular

professional obligations on Thanksgiving … and furthermore,

our capitalistic society hasn’t co-opted the day too very much.

The exceptions are few …

I don’t know how many of you drove by it on your way here,

but there’s a huge balloon turkey in someone’s lawn a block or so away.

Have you seen it?

It’s one of the few tangible advertisements I’ve seen for Thanksgiving Day.

The only other reminders I notice are long grocery lists

and earmarked pages of cookbooks on everyone’s kitchen counters.

Anyway, back to scripture and

the dire messages at hand in today’s readings.

As is always the case, there IS Good News to be found here,

… we just might have to dig a little deeper to find it.

And, … as I did last week, we aren’t going to the Good News straight away.

First, I’m going to drag us through the mud …

well, … the gospel of Mark is going to …

we’re just going along for the ride.

Mark’s story today has Jesus hanging out with his disciples

who are impressed with the Temple,

the building in front of them, and how large it is.

The disciples in this chapter sound a bit (to me) like kids

who are enamored with a shiny toy on the shelf at a store.

“Look, Mom, look at how big this Lego set is

and look at how big the pieces are …

(not little so you’ll step on them when they get caught in the shag carpet)

… couldn’t we have this one?”

Jesus undercuts their perceptions straight away.

“You think that is going to fit the bill, huh?

You think this will make you happy for more than a rainy afternoon?

You think you can pin your happiness, safety or security

on this big Lego set (or this impressive Temple)?

I wouldn’t recommend that.”

Now, we don’t quite know whether Peter, James, John and Andrew

accepted Jesus’ pronouncement immediately.

It’s possible we’re missing some conversation they had

between verses two and three in Mark’s gospel.

It’s possible the disciples didn’t ascribe to Jesus’ lesson right off the bat.

I mean towering buildings are not supposed to crumble to the ground.

The biblical disciples didn’t live through 9/11

in the United States of America,

and maybe they’d never seen such a thing happen.

So, they might’ve resisted Jesus’ statement initially.

But what they say next, … what IS mentioned here in this gospel

seems to imply that they’ve embraced Jesus’ proclamation

… and, feeling the danger inherent therein …

have begun to ask for the particulars.

“Okay, Jesus … when is this going to happen exactly?

When are these big stones going to be thrown down?”

I love Jesus, and he’s rather cagey … have you ever noticed?

He doesn’t answer their question directly.

Now, … maybe he doesn’t know the answer.

Maybe when he agreed to come into the world as a human being

he had to relinquish his divine all-knowingness.

Maybe he really didn’t know how to answer them.

I’m not sure if other parents here can relate to this,

but when my son John was a boy, even when he was just a toddler,

he would stump me with his questions constantly.

So, I got very good at saying:

“I don’t know, John. We’ll have to look it up.”

I shouldn’t complement myself from the pulpit,

but in my way of thinking this was usually a truly brilliant answer,

because it taught him that

  1. his mother was not the fount of all wisdom and
  2. that he was going to have to work for an answer.

It also got me off the hook, because until he got significantly older,

he didn’t remember or didn’t care to do the research

… so I didn’t have to either.

Anyway, back to Jesus.

Jesus doesn’t answer his disciples’ question directly either.

Unlike the glib mom that I maybe was at times,

Jesus warns his littles to not be led astray by someone presenting

as though they have all the answers.

 I don’t know if Jesus would want to be held up next to a mother,

and this one in particular,

but he certainly was a Teacher, which mothers are as well.

… and he wisely didn’t want to leave his students exposed and vulnerable,

so he told them to beware.

“Don’t be led astray.

And, this can happen very easily, my dear ones.

Use care not to be dupped.”

Now, as if this isn’t enough of a warning,

Jesus goes on to state clearly (and I quote)

“nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom.

There will be earthquakes and famines …

and this is but the beginning of the birth pangs.”

Oh, dear Jesus! Where’s the Good News?

Can you relate?

Do any of you feel personally fearful hearing Jesus’ warning?

Maybe especially in light of world events?

The larger ones, or your personal circumstances?

Wouldn’t you prefer that your Lord and Savior offer some assurances

that IF in fact all this IS to happen,

that at least you personally and your nearest and dearest

will survive all the mayhem he predicts?

I know that’s what I want.

There’s a movie I can’t remember the title of,

but I do remember a line out of the main character’s mouth.

He says, “I have faith, I just want some proof to back it up!”

So, where can we go for help?

Especially if Jesus himself is delivering some frightening predictions?

Our OT reading from Daniel tells us that someone named Michael,

a great prince and protector of people shall arise.

Who’s he? Who’s this Michael?

You remember my pat response, right?

“I don’t know … we’ll have to look that up.”

Maybe you expect me to do that for you, huh?

Well, true to form, I didn’t do a whole lot of research about this,

but it appears he was some sort of a patron saint …

maybe an archangel the people could call on

when they needed other worldly help.

In the children’s message,

I called on them to remember some of their helpers,

just as I invited everyone gathered here to do a few weeks ago.

A few of my helpers’ names are radiating from this heart,

and if I had sat with the task longer,

which would have been easy to do,

there wouldn’t be enough space on this small banner to list them all.

Not even close.

And while I’ve made it known that I love a good many of you,

even as I’ve just started to get to know you,

not one of your names is on this masterpiece.

I did that intentionally,

because I won’t risk leaving anyone out and because

I don’t want you studying it for your placement on the heart.

You are there, trust me … even if your name isn’t yet.

Where do we find our hope?

When I read Psalm 16, the phrase “the path of life” stood out to me.

That’s what Jesus holds out to us, always …

even when he must warn us of the possible pitfalls on our way.

I would argue that we start where we are.

Maybe some of you recognize the path

on the front cover of today’s bulletin?

I took it while walking in Little Wood Rose park behind this church.

I don’t know how it is for each of you when you start a new job,

a new life, but generally one’s plate is pretty full.

How blessed am I that in 2 minutes flat I can be out the door

and walking amongst lush green trees

with solid brown dirt under my feet.

This grounds me.

And I can hear God speaking in these quiet moments.

Coaxing me to remember that I am not alone.

I have never been alone.

We are not forsaken.

We have a God whose name is Love …

and that God will see us through every tight turn,

every scary adventure, if we but listen and follow.

Take time to listen to whatever might center you on your journey …

maybe remember the saints who came before you,

and the ones who still walk with you.

And know that God shines through us all.

Amen.

God’s Love Reigns (and Rains ;)

Sermon preached at Tualatin Presbyterian Church, November 10, 2024

Just a few weeks ago, I said goodbye to a church that I really loved.

Truth be told, I said goodbye to five church homes a few weeks ago.

Rather than explain exactly how this could be so,

let’s just say I’m a ‘church junkie’ and leave it at that.

While I come with deep gratitude and joy to serve Tualatin Presbyterian Church,

I also come to you as someone who has endured much sadness in my life,

including some very recent and big upsets.

Not unlike a lot of us gathered here this morning …

Anyway (back to my story), in one of those worshipping communities,

the minister offered a simple, public blessing at the end of the service.

My colleague Rev Heather, and the community gathered at St. John’s,

knew I was moving away from the San Francisco Bay Area

and would not worship with them much going forward,

so Heather kindly offered a ‘charge and blessing’ for me personally.

Right at that moment (while I was slightly everyone’s focal point),

my cell phone called out ‘GPS Lost’ (Global Positioning System LOST).

As a professional worship leader,

I obviously know the importance of turning off my phone

when I enter a place of worship (and I know that I had done that).

Needless to say, my phone didn’t agree with me.

It was startling and slightly embarrassing, but I chose to laugh it off,

as did most everyone in the room, I think.

I figure these digital devices are part of our world

and so maybe they too need a voice.

Maybe God even speaks through them?

As I was leaving worship my other colleague at St. John’s,

Rev. Chris said to me,

“Lisa, ‘GPS Lost’ will preach!

I don’t know if you’re going to use it, but I am!”

I laughed and assured him that I most definitely would.

Being a woman of my word, here I am.

Walking out of church to my car that day, I thought ahead …

knowing I would be preaching my very first sermon as your pastor

just five days after a contentious and divided national election

here in America.

While I wasn’t yet aware of the lectionary scripture passages for today,

nor exactly how our election would go specifically,

I thought GPS Lost was a good opening story.

At the time, I thought I knew …

(somewhat) what was going to happen this past week,

not the particulars of course, but I thought I knew.

I didn’t … and GPS Lost does still preach.

Approximately half of Americans, and countless people the world over

feel that their GPS, their Global Positioning System is Lost.

I would contend that people on both sides

of the election results feel this way:

most Harris supporters feel lost that they didn’t win and

many Trump supporters feel lost by our country’s

traditional form of government

and in this state of lostness voted their candidate into office,

a man who tells us that he will challenge and maybe change

much of our historic ways of governing.

People on both ‘sides’ have views on the best way to proceed,

and yet I think every last one of us, if we are honest with ourselves,

must admit that the path forward,

the one that will play out,

is truly unclear.

Going back to my opening story,

even when we think we know how something is going to go,

we aren’t always right, clearly.

I suppose you’ve heard the phrase, “Make plans, and watch God laugh.”

If you come to church today feeling lost, please take heart,

because you have come to a place

where you have a chance to be found.

Now, I won’t and we (those gathered here in person) won’t,

solve your lostness, but we will point to the One who will.

As in God, Jesus, the Holy Spirit.

So, please take heart.

If you feel lost, I hope and pray you’ll feel at least a little more found

by the end of this service.

Our Scripture readings today are fascinatingly appropriate.

I’m amazed at how often that happens, but it very often does.

At first glance they are not comforting stories, at least not on the surface.

So if you unready feel uncomfortable, I ask you to please hang in with me

because it’s going to get a little more uncomfortable before it gets better.

I promise, I’ll do my best to leave us on a hopeful, but honest, ending note.

Now, traditionally, in the way I was taught to preach,

a minister focuses on one text out of the four offered

in the Common Lectionary,

a calendar that walks us through the major themes

and stories of the Christian Bible.

Today, I am not going to do that,

because each of the passages you just heard deserves some air-time.

This means we won’t dig very deep into any one of them,

but we will peel an outer layer or two of the onion on each.

In the first reading, we hear from the book of Ruth in our Hebrew Bible,

what we Christians call the Old Testament.

In it we hear a snippet of a story about Ruth, Naomi and Boaz.

There is so very much in this story that I would like to unpack,

but I am going to be very succinct here and just point out

that this story is about two vulnerable women who chose

to remain faithful to each other in the midst of considerable duress.

They found a way to work within a system in which they had virtually no power

by binding themselves to a man who can, and in fact does,

choose to come along side of them.

The result of this is that Obed,

the grandfather of the great King David is born.

One commentator I read this week said:

“Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers,

for thereby some have entertained the great-grandmother of a king.”

In the second reading, we hear from the Psalmist, who proclaims

“Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain.

Unless the Lord guards the city, the guard keeps watch in vain.”

I’m going to let that first verse of Psalm 127 speak for itself.

It is a word of tremendous hope, because what it says is God is in charge.

If we believe God loves us and wants what is best for us, always and in all ways,

then this is truly good news indeed.

Nothing other than the hand of God will build the house or keep the city

… at least in the end.

The third scripture passage we hear is from the Gospel of Mark.

This gospel overarchingly seeks to provide a theological record

of Jesus as a mighty miracle worker.

In today’s particular story, Jesus is found teaching his disciples,

about what it means to give sacrificially.

In it we meet the poor widow who gave to the treasury two mites

(the equivalent of one penny), which was all that she had.

Mind you, her contribution didn’t touch the much larger gifts given by wealthier members of the gathered congregation,

but Jesus still lifts her up as the most generous.

I would contend that Jesus did this for a few reasons:

1. Jesus always notices the poor … be it poor monetarily, poor in spirit (i.e. the grieving widow), poor in social location which was and unfortunately still is women and the disenfranchised of every ilk.

2. Jesus always illuminates things hard for us to see or hear or know straight away. He uncovers things for us. We humans might see two little coins and think, what is that? That won’t pay the bills. It’s a nice gesture and all, but that won’t solve the financial needs of much. And Jesus says, look again. Do you know who She is? Do you know what She has? Giving all she has, while not much by the world’s standards, is A LOT. Do not, humans, look down on her for her seemingly modest giving.

3. Jesus upends our world … pointing out that the last shall be first.

Now, there are a few additional things I need to unpack further about this story,

particularly because after worship today, all members of this church

are going to be given a pledge card for 2025

asking each of you to proclaim what monies you plan to contribute

to this church starting January 1, 2025.

Next Sunday, we will ceremoniously dedicate these cards in worship.

An important side note, if you can’t quite prayerfully consider what you wish to contribute to the ministry of this church by next Sunday,

we’ll still accept your pledge in the weeks following 😉

Because I referenced this Markian gospel passage in my stewardship letter to you, 

I need to be sure that I help illuminate a few things,

which may still not be apparent about this story, The Widow’s Mite.

Jesus is not necessarily saying that the widow is doing the right thing.

He is definitely lifting her up as a positive example,

but not because he wants her to be in this position,

at least insofar as her financial contribution may leave her further destitute

That would be the antithesis of who Jesus is.

He is never about the widow being further diminished

by the worldly powers that be.

Jesus is simply making an observation.

While her two mites (or one penny) may seem small and insignificant,

she is giving her all.

That is what he is lifting up.

And, he is placing that alongside of the fact that those who appear to be giving much more

are not giving their all.

They are giving only a portion of what they have.

They are not giving sacrificially.

They are giving out of their comfort,

and, if we attach this action with the story that precedes it,

some of them feel lofty about tossing those big dollars

into the kitty in an ostentatious way.

They like the accolades they receive, because we all like to feel big and important.

This doesn’t make them ‘bad people.’

Jesus is emphatically saying I don’t care about that sort of thing (their posturing).

So, where’s the Good News?

It’s possible that the ‘widows’ here in my midst feel taken advantage of

and the ‘wealthy’ feel ashamed.

That’s not a good way to go home today.

We already have enough pain in our lives.

Well, here it is … here’s the Good News.

Jesus loves and forgives and welcomes new behavior from all of us.

Whether we give sacrificially or comfortably out of our abundance.

He is (as he always will) inviting us to see what we couldn’t see before.

He is (as he always will) inviting us to straighten out this messy human world

and its broken systems so that rampant oppression will cease to exist.

He is (as he always will) saying open your eyes, my people.

Open your ears, my people.

Open your mind, my people.

Open your heart, my people.

I love you.

Do better by one another and you will experience what it looks like to have MY LOVE REIGN

and be lived out here on Earth.

May it be so. Amen.

Love wins, … always

It may not appear so on this day, if you and I are like-minded. But Love does always win.

Always. Always. Always.

I have seen it so many times, in so many ways. From the hospital beds of the dying, from kitchen tables full of the grieving, from court rooms where justice was not served (yes, even then), from church fellowship halls with only a few tired disciples struggling to find the energy to go on. And on and on it goes. LOVE STILL WINS.

And it will today. Because if you and I are like-minded, like-hearted, you … yes, YOU reading this message …. will go out and share love. To the person beside you. At the grocery store. While pumping gas into your car. As you walk your dog. When you stop to park your bike. You will offer it with softness and kindness. You will love mercy and kindness and walk humbly with your God. Because you know that God is Love Incarnate. God’s Light will light yours. We aren’t the Little Match Girl whose light has (temporarily) blown out . God’s light is eternal and outlasts everything.

Be the light. And watch LOVE rise up!

Peace and grace to you this day.

Please Hold On

Preached at Two Rock Valley Presbyterian and Tomales Presbyterian, September 1, 2024; Based on Song of Solomon 2:8-13 and James 1:17-27

Song of Solomon 2:8-13 (NRSV) – Springtime Rhapsody

The voice of my beloved! Look, he comes, leaping upon the mountains, bounding over the hills. My beloved is like a gazelle or a young stag. Look, there he stands behind our wall, gazing in at the windows, looking through the lattice. 10 My beloved speaks and says to me: “Arise, my love, my fair one, and come away, 11 for now the winter is past, the rain is over and gone. 12 The flowers appear on the earth; the time of singing has come, and the voice of the turtledove is heard in our land. 13 The fig tree puts forth its figs, and the vines are in blossom; they give forth fragrance. Arise, my love, my fair one, and come away.

James 1:17-27 (The Message) – Act on what you hear.

16-18 So, my very dear friends, don’t get thrown off course. Every desirable and beneficial gift comes out of heaven. The gifts are rivers of light cascading down from the Father of Light. There is nothing deceitful in God, nothing two-faced, nothing fickle. He brought us to life using the true Word, showing us off as the crown of all his creatures.

19-21 Post this at all the intersections, dear friends: Lead with your ears, follow up with your tongue, and let anger straggle along in the rear. God’s righteousness doesn’t grow from human anger. So throw all spoiled virtue and cancerous evil in the garbage. In simple humility, let our gardener, God, landscape you with the Word, making a salvation-garden of your life.

22-24 Don’t fool yourself into thinking that you are a listener when you are anything but, letting the Word go in one ear and out the other. Act on what you hear! Those who hear and don’t act are like those who glance in the mirror, walk away, and two minutes later have no idea who they are, or what they look like. 25 But whoever catches a glimpse of the revealed counsel of God — the free life! — even out of the corner of his eye, and sticks with it, is no distracted scatterbrain, but a man or woman of action. That person will find delight and affirmation in the action.

26-27 Anyone who sets himself up as “religious” by talking a good game is self-deceived. This kind of religion is hot air, and only hot air. Real religion, the kind that passes muster before God, is this: Reach out to the homeless and loveless in their plight, and guard against corruption from the godless world.

Hold on, my very dear friends.

Please.

Don’t get thrown off course.

These are words from the book of James, and God, of course.

And it’s good counsel.

The reading Mary just recited comes from a book of the Bible we don’t often read …

the Song of Solomon.

It’s a curious pick for this week, but it does show up in the Revised Common Lectionary,

the prescribed calendar for walking through the major stories and themes of the Bible.

I find it a curious pick though, as maybe you did, for a couple of reasons.

The first is that it’s talking about Springtime, and, news-flash we’re headed into fall.

The text reads: “for now the winter is past and the rain is over and gone.”

I had a brief conversation with the grocery store clerk yesterday

and while we were both thrilled that fall is on the way,

she expressed some trepidation about the rains that will follow

shortly after the glorious days of fall color amid the sunshine.

Now, Song of Solomon does right itself somewhat

when it states that “the time of singing has come.”

That does align with our day. Amen?!

The Author must’ve known about Gary and his jazz band!!

We are so fortunate here, and at our Sister-Church, to have the gift of amazing music.

EVERY Sunday!

It’s a Good thing … “a Godly thing” to quote Alice Virginia (a dear faith mother of mine).

Thank you, Gary, Diane, Margaret, David, the Men’s Trio, our Choirs, and Handbell Ensemble.

I’ve surely forgotten to thank someone here,

and assuming so, chalk it up to a tired Lisa and the fact

that we have so many musicians in our midst that it’s hard to count them all.

But back to our Scripture.

The other thing that is a bit odd about the reading selection from the Song of Solomon

is that it speaks of romantic love.

This is not something we hear a lot about in the Bible, at least not so directly.

But here it is … just hear the last line again: Arise, my love, my fair one, and come away.

I remember when I was in seminary being thrilled to find this passage …

I suppose I’d heard it before, but I went looking for it, or something like it.

I was at a ceramic painting party, it was a bridal shower for a friend,

and as I recall I selected a platter or a large bowl to make for her.

Becca was marrying one of my dearest friends in seminary

and I knew that she and Scott needed some Scripture on their wedding gift

(I mean, but of course, they were seminarians!)

so I went searching for something appropriate. And here it was.

I wonder if they still have my master-piece?

They’ve got two nearly fully grown kids now, so I suspect it’s stashed away in the attic

along with their kiddos hand molded animal figurines and other family heirlooms 😉

Anyway, it’s a tad unusual to hear of romantic love in the Bible, but it’s in there.

Some people think the Bible is a bit bland, a bit esoteric, a bit obscure and irrelevant,

but I’m here to tell you it’s the most amazing Love Story that was ever written.

I mean I’m supposed to say that as a minister, but truly, IT IS!

I’m looking at a group of people whom I know and love and some of you

are in long, long marriages … what’s the longest 62, 64, 75 years … holy smokes!

Well those are long time periods, but do they compare to nearly 1,000 pages of writing

in the Old Testament or the stories of 14 generations of people?

That’s God’s Love Story for humanity, and that my friends is some tenacity.

Most of us would’ve gotten thoroughly worn out by that kind of sordid love affair.

But not God.

We humans are an ornery bunch, not prone to coming alongside even Divine Love so readily

and so God has to jump into our world in the life of Jesus Christ to win us over.

Which is why the biblical passage I just read from the book of James is a great companion

to the reading from Song of Solomon.

It implores us to ACT on what we HEAR.

And, it counsels us strongly on curbing any anger we may experience,

(which frankly if you or I were God in the scenario I just recounted,

you know 1,000 pages and 14 generations,

we might need to squelch a little ire).

I came across a quote attributed to Thomas Jefferson, which is sage advice:

“When angry, count to 10 before you speak. If very angry, count to 100.”

None of you have probably ever been that mad,

but just in case you find yourself in those shoes at some point, it’s decent counsel,

and exquisitely aligned with our text from the book of James.

When I remember to heed this message, my life goes more smoothly.

And a confession (which some of you already know):

sometimes I need to count a good bit past 100.

I walked away from a potential argument the other day for more than an hour,

which if I did my math correctly means counting to approximately 3,600.

The other thing I find that can be helpful in these situations is the use of humor.

Some of you know that I am currently living with an older adoptive ‘auntie’ named Barbara

… well, when she does something she wishes she hadn’t, say drop something on the floor,

she quips, “and for my next trick …” I just adore that, and it always makes us smile.

But back to the good counsel of Acting on what we Hear.

I love the way Eugene Peterson translates it …

“Lead with your ears, … THEN follow up with your tongue …”

Listen first. Listen to understand. Listen to let the other person’s story sit within you.

Until you’ve done that, there is no room for talking.

How would you know what to say?

Why would we think that anything we have to say will land well with the other,

especially if we’re in an argument, if we haven’t first listened well?

Again, listen here my very dear friends, the Bible does not disappoint!

In addition to being the world’s greatest Love Story

it imparts very wise counsel for our sometimes very ordinary lives!

I learned something new about the book of James at our session meeting this past week

(thank you, Kip!).

Kip once did some studies with a Muslim man who shared with him that the book of James

is the only book in the Christian Bible that is friendly toward,

or at least not offensive to people of other faiths.

I may have that slightly wrong,

but the overarching idea is that there is some interfaith openness here,

which is a beautiful thing in my way of thinking.

As many of you know, I’ve spent much of my career in positions

where an interfaith dialogue is a requirement,

and I find this rich and wonderful.

And, as a Christian minister, I LOVE that our Good Book welcomes that.

But the thing that the book of James (attributed to the writings of Jesus’ very own brother)

is probably most well-known for is the notion that, as the phrase goes:

‘Faith without works is dead.’

Some people find this very helpful,

especially, I suspect, those of us that appreciate a little practical advice.

Act on what you Hear, as we’ve already summed up today’s lesson,

is a good thing to remember.

Then again, the notion of Faith without Works flies in the face

of our very deep Christian understanding that you can’t earn God’s love,

and so working your tail off for it is a bit of a fool’s errand.

This is yet another demonstration of how rich and wonderful the Bible truly is.

It reminds us that we are so beloved that God would chase us

through hundreds of pages, recounting story after story!

Clearly, we (as a whole lot of us anyway) don’t appear to try to earn our salvation very well,

so it’s a darn good thing that we don’t have to.

That said, it doesn’t hurt when we participate in a congenial fashion. Does it?

I had a beautiful experience yesterday …

I stopped at a tea house to work on my sermon and stumbled upon a couple

who were trying to help a Monarch butterfly escape it’s entrapment inside.

The tenderness of the gesture drew me in …

it took us awhile, but we eventually got the task done.

This is a sweet example of acting on one’s faith …

living consistently with doing good by another and acting with patient perseverance.

This whole experience was made all the sweeter when after the blessed release

we were able to applaud each other for caring enough and making the time to help.

Eugene Peterson’s translation of the book of James refers to a person

who glances in a mirror but then immediately forgets what they look like.

This can be easy to do amidst the hustle and bustle of life.

Basic mirrors, even if we happen to be in front of one, don’t see our souls …

which are so much deeper, so much more interesting, and eternal.

To see with this depth, we sometimes need to be the Christ mirror for each other and say:

“when I see you, I see compassion, bravery, humor, creativity, loyalty, forgiveness,

endurance, wisdom, abundance and yes, okay, sometimes anger and self-willed deafness,

but even then, I see the potential in you that God sees.”

May we do so for each other.

Amen.

News from Lake Woe-Be-Gone, West Coast Tahoe edition

Blog post on August 15, 2024, the Day of the Assumption of Mary

If you haven’t heard of today’s holiday, the Assumption of Mary, you’re not alone. This Protestant Pastor hadn’t either. Luckily, I have a Catholic friend who lives in Paris and has the day off of work, so she told me all about it. On Aug. 15, Catholics around the world mark the solemnity of the Assumption of Mary, commemorating the end of her earthly life and assumption into heaven. Sounds like a good thing to celebrate … I mean that amazing woman didn’t have the easiest life on earth, ya know. Besides, when don’t the Parisian’s get a national holiday … especially after hosting an amazing Olympic Games?! God is good … just like I always tell you.

I am happy to report that ‘All Is Well’ in the World. Now, if all isn’t well in your world (notice the lower case ‘w’), then just wait a few minutes and to quote my dear ancient friend Julian of Norwich (from her tome, Revelations of Divine Love) ‘all shall be well, all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.’

It’s all a matter of perspective, I suppose. From where I sit (today at least), Life looks pretty good. I’m gazing on the beautiful Lake Tahoe, with it’s blue/green waves lapping on the shore beneath me. There are a few white caps, but for the most part it is serene and lovely, ringed with mountain ranges, which have been surrounding this beautiful body of water for ‘forever-and-a-day’ (a very scientific word coined by me personally, in my less than scientific view of the world).

Then again, I spoke with both of my parents this afternoon … they are young (mid-seventies), but it sounds like things really go south as we age. Dad claims that ‘Spam Risk’ is his best friend (or at least that’s who he gets the most phone calls from); and Mom failed the computer test her bank set up to see if she’s Human (apparently not … Lord, God Almighty … that’s a bitter pill for both of us). As for me, my one and only child arrived in Kansas to start college. I’m not there with him today, but I sent Toto to scope things out for me. I haven’t heard back yet … small black dogs aren’t always the most reliable informants. I’m just saying.

But how about you? I hope things are ‘Woefully Wonderful.’ Rumor has it, you could use a good day. My best advice … follow these little ducks … Huddle Up, my peeps! Life is always best when you’ve got your posse surrounding you.

Keep the Faith. Peace out for now.

A Dwelling Place for God

Preached at Two Rock Valley and Tomales Presbyterian Church – July 21, 2024 – Based on Psalm 23 and Ephesians 2:11-22

Many years ago, I served as a deacon in my home church.

This was before I decided to go to seminary,

when I was still in the business world.

Having made that decision, I was attending one of my last deacon meetings

when the following happened.

A group of nearly 40 deacons sitting in a large circle,

spent close to 20 minutes discussing the type and size of disposable cups

we should use during fellowship hour.

The less environmentally friendly folks felt that Styrofoam was the way to go

as it would protect the hands of those drinking hot coffee.

However, someone readily pointed out that our call as Christians

is to be good stewards of the earth and suggested that paper was clearly preferable.

Then, one of our beloved bean counters presented the savings we would reap

if we purchased small cups versus large ones,

not just because we could purchase more cups for the same price,

but also because we would spend less on coffee on a weekly basis.

This raised the dander of someone who began to argue

that this would cause more spilling to happen,

because people would probably fill the cups to the brim

and those little-handed lemonade drinkers would wreak havoc

by making sticky stains on our lovely carpeting.

At this point, somebody advocated that we go ahead with the larger cups

but that we give special training to servers who would be directed

to fill the cups only halfway

so that those less stable of footing would have some wiggle room

for the beverages to slosh against the sides

instead of falling onto the ground.

As I witnessed this conversation my eyes must have widened to the size of saucers,

or dare I say maybe disgust registered all over my face.

As a junior manager in business, I wondered how in the world

we could possibly spend this much time discussing disposable cups.

When the meeting ended, the Associate Pastor for Congregational Care,

having not intervened in this very painful conversation,

walked up to me, patted me on the back and said,

“Welcome to leadership in the Church, Lisa!”

It’s a miracle of God, that I stand before you today …

In a much more serious manner,

the Apostle Paul, in his letter to the Ephesians,

speaks to the different perspectives we naturally find within the church.

Here Paul is writing to Jews and Gentiles.

While he lifts up the very different backgrounds they have,

he reminds them that they are now a part of the same family and the same house,

which is God’s family and God’s house.

We could spend considerable time this morning discussing the differences

between Jews and Gentiles,

the distinct histories they each had,

the fact that Jews had a long relationship with God,

manifesting in a strong identity as the people of Israel

and a solid understanding of God’s special covenant with them;

whereas the Gentiles were newly a part of the fold,

having come from different nations and places and not adhering to the same customs.

Similarly, we could review the ways in which we, here in this place

have many distinct perspectives based on our own histories.

Some of you grew up on ranches and farm land like all the beauty around us

(TOMALES: or in this sweet little town);

whereas others of you landed here from quite different parts.

We have some City Slickers here,

not from that great movie that came out in the 1990s,

but people who literally hail from San Francisco

and other so-called worldly places.

But rather than get caught up in distinctions,

deep significant ones or more trivial matters,

I’d rather ask us to consider what it means to be people of God.

Each one of us has a unique story about how we find ourselves here this morning.

There are as many different stories about that as there are different people gathered here.

Some of you were raised in the faith and can’t imagine any other place that you would be.

Some of you had a life-altering experience that brought you through these doors.

Some of you rolled out of bed with ease and excitement

and got ready to come and be among friends and family.

Some of you struggled to get here,

life being a challenge due to physical restraints or hard life circumstances

that are weighing you down.

But somehow, each of us got here today,

and the common denominator, ultimately, is Jesus Christ.

My sermon title is “A Dwelling Place for God,”

which is not the leave bit creative or original,

as these are the last five words in our scripture passage from Ephesians.

But, it is the description of that dwelling place,

which precedes those last few words of scripture

where I want to invite us to focus.

The church’s potential as a dwelling place for God depends on community,

on being joined together.

Much of what I read and studied about this passage from Ephesians

spoke about wiping out or breaking down that which divides us

so that we are truly One in Christ.

Yet, I’m not sure that should be our focus.

I don’t believe that erasing our differences is helpful, or even possible really.

It seems it would be much more productive to look at weaving our differences together.

We cannot be the One we are meant to be in Christ as individuals

without at the same time, being the many we surely are in the Church.

My opening story about a group of church folk attempting to select disposable cups,

while clearly embellished,

speaks to what makes church a unique witness in the world –

the fact that at our best, we ACTUALLY BELIEVE everyone’s voice has a place

and that by lifting up those distinct voices we will, … eventually, and with great patience,

make the best decision we can for our collective good.

When it comes to selecting cups,

or when we are gathered with like-minded folds,

we are generally able to speak our truth.

But, being good church folks, sometimes we’re too nice to speak about our differences.

It’s human nature to be conflict averse … at least a very many people are.

We can be silent about things that really matter,

which can be problematic in communal living.

When we fail to speak openly and honestly about what is deeply important to us,

we can live shallowly, which is ultimately not very fulfilling.

Out text today talks about being a dwelling place for God.

This is not just as individuals but as a community of faith.

In order to be that dwelling place,

we must be able to speak our own truth in love

and we must be able to bring those truths together so that we have a collective voice,

a larger picture, for God.

When I was initially thinking about a dwelling place for God,

I was thinking about a peaceful place,

and yet, sometimes God sits smack dab in the middle of our messes.

In fact, Christ did just that over and over and over again.

It’s actually, if we are truthful, I think,

why we love and respect him so very much.

Listen to this unique translation of Psalm 23 from Emily Bernardi,

which I heard a couple of weeks ago when attending the Memorial service

for the Rev. Linda Powers, a dear friend of this congregation,

and a woman who was notorious for coming alongside people

that not everyone would find easy to love …

“The Lord is my best friend,

the one who takes care of me, heals me and feeds me.

That is why I always have more than enough.

He has offered me a resting place in His luxurious love

and that is where I am learning to abide and stay.

As I listen and follow Him,

He leads me daily to an oasis of peace and the quiet brook of bliss.

This is where he restores and revives my life.

He opens before me the pathways to God’s pleasure and leads me along –

so that I can bring honor to His name.

If I go His speed and follow Him daily,

and continue to abide in Him, learning to carry His presence,

my life will bring Him all of the honor He could ever want of me.

Even when the path takes me through the valley of the deepest darkness

(not talking about personal attacks against my family and things or me),

fear will never conquer me.

He always remains close to me and leads me.

The comfort of His love takes away every fear, and I am never lonely.

His authority is my strength and peace.

The One who created the entire universe is the One who is with me,

on my side, always with me to help me.

The Lord is my delicious feast, even when the enemy dares to fight.

My life is anointed with the fragrance of the Holy Spirit.

He gives me all I can drink of Himself until my heart overflows.

This is the presence I carry and changes and transforms the atmosphere around me.

Why would I fear the future?

His goodness and love pursue me all of my days,

and I will live in His presence forever.”

Thanks be to God.

Amen.

A Flower Strewn Path

Came across this lovely bicycle while on a walk after Sunday afternoon’s beautiful memorial service for the Rev. Linda Powers. Such a fabulous tribute to a kind, feisty, justice-hearted woman. Proud to have been among those gathered to celebrate her life and send her home well.

This bike made me smile and reminded me of pulling my own bike away from a bunch of morning glories that had overridden it my last summer in Ohio. My bike was the last thing I put in the back of the Penske truck my dad and I drove cross country to San Francisco so I could start my studies at SFTS. It’s been quite a journey, strewn with flowers more often than not. Grateful 🙏💞

Send Us Out

Based on Ezekiel 2:1-5 and Mark 6:1-13, Preached at Two Rock and Tomales Presbyterian Churches on the Seventh Sunday after Pentecost, Proper 9 – July 7, 2024

“What a pity,” Annie Dillard wrote,

“that so hard on the heels of Christ come the Christians.”

Reading the call of the Prophet Ezekiel, makes one feel the same sort of disappointment.

The first chapter of his book starts in a stormy fashion.

Referred to constantly as, ‘Mortal,’ the major Prophet Ezekiel

seems to feel anything but Major.

His call story demonstrates that he felt, as is often the case,

ill-prepared to be a mouthpiece for God.

In like fashion, IF Christians are always being reminded

of just how ordinary and powerless we are, if we’re told constantly to be humble,

we may likely fulfill our own demoralized expectations

and NOT show up for God’s people in the way they need us to.

And boy oh boy do God’s people need us to show up for them now.

Same as it ever was, but really …

This theme continues in Mark’s gospel

where we hear of Jesus being rejected in his home town.

Maybe this is familiar territory for some of you.

How many of you grew up in this area?

Did you have to fight against your growing up reputation?

Or God-forbid, your families’ reputation?

That kind of stuff can be hard to live down.  

I was talking with a couple of church members the other day …

listening to some of their recent experiences with the larger world.

They were talking about a time not too long ago when some,

presumably well-meaning young people from across the Bay

were protesting near some of our ranches.

They were animal lovers and as such felt it imperative that they make their concern

for the fair treatment of animals known to our neighbors,

whom they felt, by sheer evidence that these ranchers raise livestock,

were clearly mistreating animals.

This was concerning for the ranchers who all the sudden had flocks of people

descending on their normally quiet roads,

camped out near their driveways and making it feel almost unsafe

to go run their daily errands.

I grew up in farm country. I wasn’t raised in a farming family,

but many of my good friends when I was growing up did.

In fact, one of my nearest and dearest friends grew up on a farm

and even converted his family farm from the normal practices of the 1970s and 1980s

to a pristine organic farm … no small feat of an accomplishment …

what with all the regulatory paperwork and the need for a considerable lapse of time

for the soil to release any of the harder chemicals used in traditional pesticides.

On one occasion, Marty told me about the process of taking their cattle to be ‘harvested,’

as they had been raised for the consumption of meat eaters.

The notion of this made me uncomfortable,

which then made Marty uncomfortable,

because he knew I was a meat-eater and thus had no right

to balk at the natural order of things.

So he showed me a thing or two.

He invited me out to the farm so I could get a better understanding of the process.

I wasn’t willing to go to the slaughterhouse,

and to be clear Marty used to tease that he had to go to the local bar

on that fateful day every year too.

No one raising animals is going to like that day … even if it does bring one their livelihood.

I learned a lot that day on the farm.

Like how Marty would play classical music for the cattle while he fed them dinner.

He told me which ones were okay to feed hay to directly

and which ones I might not want to put my hand near their mouth.

In the end, I decided that if I were a cow, I’d definitely want to be one of Marty’s.

They seemed to have a pretty good life!

And as long as I plan to continue to eat beef,

I better reconcile myself to the life cycle of cattle raised for producing beef.

What’s all this got to do with our Scripture passages for today?

Well, I hope it gives an example of how we might learn

to stretch past our initial perspectives.

We have to do this today.

We can’t rest on our laurels and expect things to go well.

If we’ve had successes, we aren’t guaranteed more;

and if we’ve had failures, we aren’t doomed to repeat them.

That is, unless we decide to close ourselves off from learning and growing.

The people in Jesus’ hometown thought they knew him because they watched him grow up.

This makes sense. He’s a known entity to them.

But no one, not even a mother and father can fully see their young ones in all their fullness.

So much growing happens inwardly.

In the botanical world a great deal of activity happens

before a seed even breaks through the soil into the sunlight.

So, we can know our people,

but we’d be wise to give them ample room to show up in new ways.

This is the case in our marital relationships and our long-term friendship too.

Just because someone always does that thing,

doesn’t mean they’re going to do it again.

I mean if you’re convinced that this is how it is going to go,

then whether it does or not, that is probably what you’re going to see.

But is that fair to the person in front of you?

Would you want that done to you?

Now when we get to the larger world, ya know like at the grocery store,

and we see the old Republican guy wearing a Make America Great Again hat;

or the young woman wearing a Title IX Rules tee shirt,

it might be a little more challenging to give the benefit of the doubt

if we don’t like the message the person is wearing.

But you know what … we just might not know the whole story.

In fact, it’s an absolute given that we don’t know the whole story …

we don’t even know their name, for God’s sake!

Are we willing to ask?

Can we offer even just a smile, whether we like the message they are wearing or not?

I think the end of Mark’s gospel lesson today is fascinating.

After being rejected by the hometown crowd,

Jesus persists with his mission.

The text says that “he was amazed at their unbelief.”

He knew how much growing he’d done.

He knew what God’s Spirit had endowed him with.

Why couldn’t they see it?

Well, if they were that short-sighted, that was none of his business.

He’d get on with the task ahead … which was a task to share God’s love …

with every last person willing to receive it.

He was smart, Jesus … ya know,

He knew he couldn’t accomplish the task on his own.

So he gathered his friends and sent them out two-by-two

to the mission fields all around them.

I like that.

You have a friend and an accountability partner if you go out two-by-two.

If one of you ‘chickens out’ with that guy in the hat or that gal in the tee shirt,

then maybe your friend can make the approach.

And what are you supposed to say?

What does Jesus want us to do?

Well the text says to go out, taking nothing except a staff;

no bread, no money in our belts; and only wear sandals and one tunic.

(Now you know … ‘clothes-horse’ that I am … I don’t like that one AT ALL)!

What’s the point of not coming prepared with a change of clothes?

Well, I think it is so that we stay focused on the task at hand

and NOT get distracted with who we are and how we show up

but keep fixed on WHO GOD IS and what God’s message is.

And what is that message?

It’s sharing God’s love. God’s providence. God’s message of redemption and grace.

For everyone.

Every. Last. One. Of. Us.

The Ezekiel text is telling too.

We in the Church might feel like the Prophet:

Too fearful, too weak, or too in shock to stand up on our own two feet,

and thus powerless to do much of anything.

Evangelism is a hard one for most Christians.

We live in a pluralistic world and so we don’t want to offend.

I had to conquer that one when I served as a Hospital Chaplain.

About half of the patients I went to see when I did my daily rounds

wanted nothing to do with me.

Those folks either didn’t want to hear from some ‘Bible-thumping-Jesus-lover,’

or they didn’t want to see the ‘Grim-Reaper.’

Heck, I wouldn’t want to visit with either of those types either, so I understood.

But you can share God’s love, Jesus’ grace with anyone

and you don’t have to name what you’re doing.

You just do it.

And, God will be pleased.

The person in front of you will appreciate the kindness.

And you might feel pretty okay too.

What if the person doesn’t receive your kindness,

… the love of God as you attempt to express it?

Both biblical texts today stress the same thing.

Don’t be attached to the outcome of your ‘mission.’

Just stay true to the call.

God goes with us.

Send us Out God … with your love and grace.

We know how much our world needs to hear from You.

Amen.

Our Hearts are Wide Open

Based on Job 38:1-11 and 2 Corinthians 6: 1-13 – Preached at Two Rock and Tomales Presbyterian Churches, June 23, 2024

I have a confession to make.

Pastors aren’t supposed to have favorite people in their congregations,

but we’re human beings (newsflash), so we do.

One of my favorites from the first church I served is a man named Frank.

Frank and I couldn’t be more different in a lot of ways.

We vote differently in national politics, our personal theologies don’t always agree, and

we wouldn’t spend any time together if we were on a mutual vacation

because we like completely different pastimes,

and yet, I adore the man.

The admiration is all the sweeter because the reason I like him

has nothing to do with the ‘worldly’ factors I just listed …

politics, theology, or leisure time.

The reason I like him, and I think he likes me,

is because over the course of more than five years,

we got to see each other’s hearts for God and the Church.

The connection is ultimately based on much deeper matters

then the relatively trivial matters that tend to divide us all.

Anyway, as is often the case between friends,

Frank and I have a running joke.

It developed over the years based on a pattern that got set up one Sunday morning.

As he was greeting me after worship he would say,

“Lisa, you really need to preach more fire and brimstone sermons.”

I think the first time he said it, I was taken aback.

Do any of you want to hear a fire and brimstone message?

Well, I can be pretty slow to respond at times and so it probably took a while,

but eventually I came up with what I thought was a brilliant response:

“When hell freezes over, Frank.”

I am of the mind that Love always wins over Fear

and so fire and brimstone just doesn’t work for me.

I’m sure each of you could think of a time when a fiery approach worked for you

and so I’m sure you could correct me,

but nine times out of ten, I think holding a carrot out to someone works far better

than holding a stick over them.

At least that is my experience.

All of this makes today’s message a little difficult to preach,

since I’m touching on the story of Job.

As I mentioned last week, I always pick my sermon focus

based on a prescribed liturgical calendar that gives me only four options.

An OT/Hebrew passage, a Psalm, a Gospel message,

and a Scripture reading from the voluminous writings of the Apostle Paul.

Today I picked the OT passage from Job and the Pauline passage from 2 Corinthians.

The reason I picked Job is because it has to be one of the more challenging books

in the entire Bible, at least in my opinion.

As a reminder, the book of Job is the story of a righteous man with a good life

who has everything snatched away from him almost as soon as we’re introduced to him.

What follows is an agonizingly long conversation between Job,

three of his friends, and God Almighty.

Now if you aren’t familiar with it, or have forgotten,

Job’s friends are the worst kind of friends you could have.

You could say, “With friends like these, who needs enemies?”

The reason I say this is because they have minimal compassion for his hard circumstances

(they even blame him for his situation initially)

and then they spend a lot of effort trying to convince him to ‘turn on God’.

Ya know, if God allowed all these calamities to happen to you, Job,

then clearly, He is not to be trusted.

Job is tenacious in his faith, and he doesn’t turn on God.

Until right before the passage we read.

Even then I wouldn’t say that Job turns, he more grows weary and confused.

I mean when your earthly friends show up as enemies

and God doesn’t seem to be responding to your pain,

what’s a man to do?

Listen again to God’s response to Job’s questions of why this has happened:

Then the Lord answered Job out of the whirlwind: 

2“Who is this that darkens counsel by words without knowledge? 

3Gird up your loins like a man, I will question you, and you shall declare to me.

4“Where were you when I laid the foundation of the earth? Tell me, if you have understanding. 

5Who determined its measurements—surely you know! Or who stretched the line upon it? 

6On what were its bases sunk, or who laid its cornerstone 

7when the morning stars sang together and all the heavenly beings shouted for joy? 

8“Or who shut in the sea with doors when it burst out from the womb? — 

9when I made the clouds its garment, and thick darkness its swaddling band, 

10and prescribed bounds for it, and set bars and doors, 

11and said, ‘Thus far shall you come, and no farther, and here shall your proud waves be stopped’?

With a response like this, would you keep trusting God?

How would you respond?

God’s diatribe continues for a few chapters.

He really reads Job the riot act.

And do you know how Job responds,

when he’s finally given the opportunity to speak?

“I know that you can do all things, and that no purpose of yours can be thwarted.

… I have uttered what I did not understand.” (Job 42:2-3)

It reminds me of a Henri Nouwen quote that is quite truthful and telling:

“Theological formation is the gradual and painful discovery of God’s incomprehensibility.

You can be competent in many things, but you cannot be competent in God.”

The second scripture passage that we read came from 2 Corinthians.

In it we hear a word seeking reconciliation.

The writer, the Apostle Paul, is speaking to the community in Corinth

where there has been some in-fighting.

I can’t imagine that sort of thing happening amongst a group of people, can you?

Well, apparently it happens somewhere, or did.

And so, Paul says the following:

Companions as we are in this work with you, we beg you, please don’t squander one bit of this marvelous life God has given us. God reminds us,

“I heard your call in the nick of time; The day you needed me, I was there to help.”

Well, now is the right time to listen, the day to be helped.

Don’t put it off; don’t frustrate God’s work by showing up late, throwing a question mark over everything we’re doing.

Our work as God’s servants gets validated – or not – in the details.

People are watching us as we stay at our post, alertly, unswervingly … in hard times, tough times, bad times; when we’re beaten up, killed, and mobbed; working hard, working late, working without eating;

with pure heart, clear head, steady hand; in gentleness, holiness, and honest love;

when we’re telling the truth, and when God’s showing his power, when we’re doing our best setting things right,

when we’re praised and when we’re blamed; slandered, and honored; true to our word, though distrusted; ignored by the world, but recognized by God;

terrifically alive, though rumored to be dead; beaten within an inch of our lives, but refusing to die; immersed in tears, yet always filled with deep joy;

living on handouts, yet enriching many; having nothing, having it all.

Dear, dear Corinthians, I can’t tell you how much I long for you to enter this wide-open, spacious life.

We didn’t fence you in. The smallness you feel comes from within you. Your lives aren’t small, but you’re living them in a small way.

I’m speaking as plainly as I can and with great affection.

Open up your lives. Live openly and expansively!”

I don’t know about you, but it sounds like a good invitation to me …

Going back to the beginning of this message,

I proposed that the carrot works far better than the stick.

Like I said earlier, I’m sure you can come up with times where that is not true,

but more often than not, in my personal experience, carrots are better.

Especially when in conflict.

A carrot is an attractive thing.

Even if you dislike them, or are allergic to them, they are one of the sweetest vegetables.

And generally speaking, vegetables are a good thing.

On the other hand, sticks are generally seen as weapons.

They can be used to build a fire or a structure and so they aren’t intrinsically bad.

But if you and I were in a battle of some kind

and I picked something up in my hand,

wouldn’t you prefer see a carrot then a stick?

If nothing else, it might make you laugh.

And laughter is almost always good.

The image on the front cover of your bulletin is a photo I took one day

while running errands.

The bottom of that sign which reads “We adore you …”

says something like, “… so please don’t park here …

we really don’t want to tow you out of our parking space.”

Rather than write some imposing, confrontative message,

a carrot is being held out.

If you pulled into the parking spot and read the full sign,

you might be irritated to have to move,

but you’d be apt to smile at the same time.

You might have a little compassion for the person who’s spot it is.

Because probably they need that spot,

or have paid for that spot as part of their rental property,

and maybe, just maybe they have a right to it.

We all have a place in this world.

With God’s grace, we can learn to respect what each of us brings to the table.

Because in Jesus’ world,

every last one of us has a place here.

We are all needed.

Thanks be to God.

Amen.

Walk by Faith, Not by Sight

Preached at Two Rock Valley and Tomales Presbyterian Churches, June 16, 2024

As many of you know, I had the joy of watching my son and many of his buddies

walk the stage for their high school graduations this past week.

It was surreal and beautiful.

For any of you who may feel weighted down by national politics, world events,

or your own person trials and tribulations,

please know that it is my humble assessment that we are in good hands

with this upcoming generation.

Such handsome souls I witnessed this week … a plethora of them.

70 or so at Tamiscal in Corte Madera and 350 or so at Archie Williams in San Anselmo. Talented and beautiful … Every. Last. One. Of. Them.

It was a joy to see the parents too.

I can’t toot my own horn, pastors are supposed to be humbler than that,

but I can applaud my friends.

And so many of them helped John and I so much over the years.

For example, I saw Bob and Kristin, a couple both of whom I just adore.

I hadn’t seen them in years …

maybe not since around the time when Bob coached John in little league.

It brought a great memory to mind …

the boys were particularly wild on one particular day …

They looked like a poster for The Little Rascals …

they were all turning their caps to different angles in some sort of game

of what hour is your hat pointing to …

That’s when Coach Bob got them to straighten up.

“Boys, your hat brim always points straight ahead …

at least if you want that ball to go where you want it to when you get up to bat.”

Well, … that took care of that.

It’s a good spiritual message too.

Face forward. Even when you can’t see where you are going.

The title of my sermon is Walk by Faith, Not by Sight,

which comes out of a companion Scripture selection to the two we just read today

(2 Corinthians 5:7).

I tend to follow what’s called the Common Lectionary,

which is a three-year Church Calendar that encourages pastors

to walk through the Bible somewhat methodically.

I like it, as many of my peers do,

because it gives an immediate starting place from which to focus and preach.

It also means that I am challenged to show up,

and thus help you show up, for our faith in a way that is Bible-led, not Pastor-led.

This is important, because it means someOne other than me,

and my little human whims, is dictating what you think about today,

and hopefully, if I do my job well, this upcoming week.

So today we heard King David’s call story in 1 Samuel

and about the mighty mustard seed in the gospel of Mark.

Good, good stories about small, unimposing entities

becoming great and impressive under God’s tutelage.

I like that. And it fits well with the larger calendar of our lives,

what with graduations and Father’s Day and Juneteenth this coming week.

Both the Scripture passages we read today are about vision;

God’s expert vision and our relative lack of it.

It’s not that we can’t see, or course,

but rather than our sight can lead us astray and that often we can’t see the big picture.

In the call story of King David, even the prophet Samuel

has trouble seeing what God is up to.

Directed by God to anoint a new king, Samuel is led to the house of Jesse,

a father with eight sons, one of whom God plans to name as the country’s new leader.

When Samuel saw Jesse’s eldest son, Eliab, he was sure that the search was over.

Eliab was striking and tall and seemingly a perfect fit for a king.

But God told Samuel:

“Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him; for the Lord does not see as mortals see; they look on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.”

In the end, the heart that made the cut was David’s;

Jesse’s youngest son who had been relegated to tending sheep,

rather than invited to attend the important family meeting with Samuel.

David’s a curious pick in my mind,

because the only thing we’re told about him is that he has a healthy, glowing,

handsome face and beautiful eyes.

Didn’t God just stress that outer appearances aren’t the deciding factor?

It seems clear to me that God sees something that we humans don’t

or can’t from our limited vantage point.

I read recently that sheep (which humans are often compared with in Scripture)

can’t see past the end of their noses.

Supposedly, and some of you sitting here can confirm or deny this,

they have excellent peripheral vision, but their depth perception is poor

and sight really isn’t their strongest sense.

We humans can be the same way, and as near as I can tell

it doesn’t much matter whether we need corrective lenses or not;

As an example, in one of my son’s and my most favorite movies

(at least it was a number of years ago),

Mary Poppins tells the story of a woman called in to care for the children

of a successful banker named George.

George is confident that he has his priorities straight,

but, over the course of the movie, with the help of Mary Poppins and his young children,

he becomes awakened to his shortsightedness.

Life can do this do us. Especially, I am finding, in middle age.

The number of things vying for our attention grows and grows

and before long we’re apt to loose track of what is important.

Children can actually be quite good at reminding us, if we let them.

In another childhood favorite story, The Little Prince,

who symbolizes the hope, love, innocence and insight of childhood says:

“Grown-ups never understand anything by themselves,

and it is tiresome for children to be always and forever be explaining things to them.”

Dads (and moms too, but it is Father’s Day),

listen to your children today … they might have an important message for you.

I suppose it is all a matter of perspective.

What we ‘know’ is dependent on what is important to us

and what we understand about our world.

Adults, at least some of us, understand things like

setting a budget, fixing things, operating computers, cooking meals, managing time, reading, and the list goes on.

Children, on the other hand, understand and know the importance of

smelling the flowers, playing, imagining, dreaming, creating art, & other such necessities.

Adults and children actually make a pretty good team,

even if it might take a bit of stretching to appreciate each other’s gifts.

It is however, imperative that we learn to do so.

At least if we hope to connect with loved ones …

we often have to agree to step into their world.

At the end of our service today we will be singing one of my very favorite hymns …

Guide My Feet.

We will do this because it is an African American spiritual

and this coming week is Juneteenth, a relatively new national holiday.

It’s probably long overdue in being recognized as it celebrates the freedom

of Africans in America, signified by the Emancipation Proclamation

read to enslaved African Americans on June 19th in 1865.

Several years ago, with the brutal death of George Floyd,

most Americans were reminded that we still have a long way to come in this regard.

But naming Juneteenth as a National holiday is at least a start

to lifting up a priority we Americans can at least hope to live into better.

There’s another reason we’re singing Guide My Feet, and it’s personal.

My water broke, announcing John’s birth, to that song.

It happened at the Presbyterian Church in Windsor, California

right after I stepped down off the chancel

having offered the closing blessing to my dear clergy friend Amy

who was being installed as the Pastor there.

Without going into too much detail, it was a confusing experience for me …

to be fair John was 3 weeks early, and I wasn’t prepared for his arrival.

But he decided he was coming, and the fact that I was singing Guide My Feet

did not lose its message on me.

I got it. Loud and clear. And he still does guide my feet.

Whether you go into this day celebrating your Dad or lamenting that he’s passed on,

Whether you rue the day that He was born and wish you’d had a different one,

Whether you have a plethora of African friends and are grateful our country

is trying to do something to acknowledge

the collective pain we inflicted on a whole race of people,

Or if you just go home not really caring about either Father’s Day or Juneteenth,

I invite you to consider that God is always talking with you …

through the experiences of your day,

through your loved ones, those you like and the ones that you don’t so much.

God is with you … God is with all of us.

Thanks be to God.

Amen.

Congratulations, Graduates … we are ALL on our way UP!

This week I experienced a beautiful thing. My son’s graduation from high school. John got into a special program at the local alternative high school for his senior year, so he graduated from two schools, his ‘home’ school and the ‘alternative’ one. And so, even though I have only one kid, he got two opportunities to walk across a stage. It was extra poignant, and a beautiful thing to witness.

In our culture, or at least the subculture I live in, a high school education is barely the start of things. I come from a family where everyone has at least a Master’s Degree so high school seems almost a given. But it isn’t, of course, and especially so for recent graduates. It’s quite an accomplishment really (emotionally, hormonally, and interpersonally as much as academically). Especially for this beautiful group of young people that just graduated.

My son was six years old when Sandy Hook happened … the very same age as the group of young ones who died in that fateful incident in 2012. He and his classmates have since weathered regular ‘active shooter’ emergency drills at school. They’ve lived through wildfires, including a couple that came close enough to burn up the homes of some of his fellow students and teachers. The end of middle school happened just a few months into the Covid pandemic so we drove thorough the parking lot, adorning masks, to pick up his ‘diploma’ and final papers/artwork portfolio from a gloved and masked administrator. This meant he never got to connect with some friends who then dispersed to different high schools. And all of this was within days of the killing of George Floyd, which sent our very white but largely woke community into a tailspin. So much so that the public high school striped itself of it’s name (Sir Francis Drake was an explorer who came to the west coast of America just about 100 years after Christopher Columbus, and as would’ve been the case at the time, Drake owned slaves). So Drake High got the serial number of HS1327 until the community weathered a public and heated process of selecting a new name. This meant, personally for John, that he started high school in a nameless place and from his bedroom (we were just 6 months into the massive shutdowns for Covid).

If John’s reading this, he’s rolling his eyes and thinking “Really mom, a history lesson, … I just graduated from all of this.” But there’s a method to my madness. I’m not droning on just to take a trip down memory lane. I’m recounting the above because it is a lot to endure for a group of young people trying to grow up in a tumultuous world. I for one, am very proud to have watched so many of them walk across a stage … one that every last one of them deserved very, very much.

As a parent, I get to relish in the joy of watching this happen, but really we all might benefit. These young people have weathered a lot, and come through as shining stars. God willing, to quote a young man’s speech on Tuesday, they “have a lifetime to grow into the change-makers the world needs us to be.” The good will expressed by John’s fellow students, the talent expressed in speeches, poems, song, and multiple languages, was very inspiring. I wish I could convey it adequately to those of us who now regularly cower from the evening news. Because we are in good hands, people. This upcoming generation has what it takes to get us through the worldly morass we are currently in.

Good times are coming. Yes, may it be so!

Sharing Grace

(a sermon preached for Two Rock Valley and Tomales Presbyterian Churches on June 2, 2024, message is based on 2 Corinthians 4:5-15)

In the 13th century, Emperor Fredrick of the Roman Empire,

conceived of an experiment by which he believed

he would discover human-kind’s original language; Hebrew, Greek, or Latin.

He decided to achieve this goal by isolating a few infants

from the sound of the human voice.

Left to their own devices, he believed these little ones

would eventually speak our natural human tongue.

Nurses were forced to swear they would not speak to the infants

while feeding, bathing, and diaper changing.

Within several months instead of declaring the native tongue of humankind,

all the babies were (… brace yourself) … dead.

After reeling from the horror of this story,

I had an immediate thought.

Is this why mainline Christian churches in America are dwindling in membership,

dare I say (at least our fear says) dying?

Is it because we don’t think sharing our faith is necessary?

Is it because we think that people are born innately with a full-fledged sense of faith?

Probably we realize we have a contribution to make,

but maybe don’t know how to share about why we come to Church,

or we are afraid to do so in this day and time and place?

In Second Corinthians Chapter 4, the apostle Paul says:

“Just as we have the same spirit of faith, that is in accordance with Scripture

– “I believed and so I spoke” – we also believe and so we speak.

… Yes, everything is for your sake so that grace,

as it extends to more and more people,

may increase thanksgiving, to the glory of God.”

We believe and so we speak.

Emperor Fredrick felt his beliefs would speak on their own, with tragic results.

Beliefs are not shared unless they are spoken,

just as they aren’t shared unless they are demonstrated.

When my son John was born,

the nurse who helped me as I was leaving the hospital

instructed me to speak to him constantly;

to explain what I was doing and why,

even on mundane things like buckling him into his car seat.

She stressed to me that even newborns have some understanding of what is going on

and that furthermore they need to learn their mother’s (or a loved ones) voice.

They need to be spoken to because they are no less a person than an adult.

Infants learn this way, even when we are unable to see how.

Research tells us that the typical child takes in an average of a dozen words a day

by the time they are eighteen months old.

(So, if I’ve done the math correctly, that would mean that they ‘know’ nearly 10,000 words by the time they reach 1.5 years of age).

Whether we realize it or not, our words, and the beliefs behind them, are readily absorbed,

long before a child even begins to speak.

And it goes both ways: babies not only understand us when they are preverbal,

but we understand them, even without words.

It often takes just a short time for a new mom to distinguish between a cry that means,

“I’m hungry,” a cry that means, “I need my diaper changed,” and

a cry that means, “I’m tired.”

And if you never could tell the difference, it doesn’t mean you were a bad mom, …

most likely it means you were tired and pulled in far too many directions.

In a language acquisition study some time ago,

it was proven that parents can recognize their children from their babbles and coos.

In one particular study, a group of French laypeople were invited to listen

to recordings of pre-verbal babies from different countries.

With near perfect accuracy,

they could pick out the babblings of their French babies over all the others.

We communicate with words and with pre-verbal utterances;

but the common denominator is that speaking to one another is critical.

We speak in order to develop and sustain relationships.

We voice what we believe; we share what we feel is important.

An important reminder too … we absolutely speak without words as well …

experts posit that 93% of our communication is actually non-verbal

(this includes tone of voice, mannerisms, facial expressions and the like).

Interestingly, when my son John was young,

I tried pretty hard NOT to over-emphasize religion.

I wanted him to believe. I wanted him to know the love of God.

I wanted him to understand his mom’s professional calling,

but I didn’t want it to be all consuming for him.

PKs (Pastor’s Kids) can have a tough time growing up

– either taking on the mantle of perfectly behaved saviors for all around them

or taking the opposite approach by rebelling against their parents’ teachings with gusto.

I didn’t want to encourage either of these postures in John.

And yet, despite my intention to keep Church in a healthy balance for him,

John picked up plenty of what he heard about God, faith and Church.

And from what I could tell,

John was more expressive than most of his peers on these matters.

One day when John was in kindergarten,

he came home to inform me that he had started a ‘God Club.’

When I asked him who was in the club,

he said everyone, … well except for Sam.

As a newly called church pastor I was quite impressed with this …

(that’s a very good participation rate!)

“What do you do in your God club, John?”

“We talk about the things that God does, Mom (duh!)

You know, like create trees, flowers, food, friends – we add things to the list every day.”

Seeing how John absorbed all that swirled around him was a joy, and quite informative.

If children are that adept at picking up on what they hear,

then NOT hearing things might also be profound.

If faith is not discussed, children probably think it’s not that important.

Or, at minimum, they certainly might not know how to develop a sense of faith.

If we live in a void, where there are no expressions of faith,

how can we, like the infants not exposed to language at the start of my message here,

how can we thrive in knowing and sharing the grace of God?

I had the honor of meeting Garrison Keillor, the NPR radio-show host,

a decade or so ago at a ‘meet and greet’ before one of his shows in Carmel, CA.

When he learned I was a pastor, he shared a bit about his pastor (also a young-ish woman)

and his church, … and the dwindling membership he witnessed there.

After summarizing this unfortunately all too familiar situation, he asked me,

“Lisa, where are all the children? They don’t come and when they do,

they don’t know the first thing about Christian teachings. What has happened?”

I was surprised by the seriousness of this very funny man.

Taken aback, I nonetheless quickly quipped,

“I think they’re all on the soccer fields or basketball courts, Sir” …

… because that was my experience.

He was speaking to the choir because I was in this exact season of life and

I found myself, much to my dismay, to be at times an ‘angry church lady’

who couldn’t figure out how to get my kid to his ballgames,

which increasingly ate up all of our weekends, including Sunday mornings,

(which were definitely not sacredly set aside for Church).

In my experience of the larger world,

Church is no longer a part of the fabric of society in many pockets of America.

People are busy with a multitude of interests and activities.

This may be a bold claim, but I actually think people are tying to create their own churches

on the soccer fields and with the communal bike rides,

and they are doing this precisely because the Church has failed them

(yes, there is a whole sermon there, and no I am not touching that one today).

If we were in business, our conversation as the Church would be

“How do we increase our market share?”

How do we convince people that church is as important as soccer or that

down time with one’s family might nicely include an outing to church on Sunday mornings?

The tide is working against us.

We don’t have the latest gizmo or paradigm to share.

Our story is old, … very old.

But this does NOT make it obsolete.

Let us remember, lest we bemoan the times in which we live,

that the tide has often been working against people of faith.

The apostle Paul, author of our reading from Corinthians today,

was arguably one of the most expressive evangelists our Christian faith has ever known.

How did he come to share the Good News?

He shared his experiences,

after being struck down off his horse while traveling the road to Damascus,

supposedly blinded by Christ because he was headed to persecute Christians.

Not exactly a moment when he was at his personal best.

Sharing what we know (in our heads) is not,

as compelling as sharing why our faith moves us to show up at Church.

Sharing how we have come to believe what we believe, however,

… that can be transformative, for ourselves and others.

How do we do this in a society and time in which everything is expressed

in sound bites and text messages?

Faith doesn’t necessarily lend itself well to this sort of brevity.

I wish I could answer that question with a simple reply.

I take comfort in the words of a mentor of mine who recently reminded me that

“Leaders don’t need answers. They must have the right questions.”

And so, knowing that big endeavors require initial baby steps, I’ll ask: “How do we start?”

Maybe by sharing our faith with each other, here in Church.

Consider sharing the reasons why you are committed to this church

and the Christian walk with each other during fellowship time.

What brought you here initially? What keeps you coming?

Our answers might give us insight into how to share our faith

with people in the rest of our lives.

This is evangelism, … and it is important,

as uncomfortable as it might make some of us quiet-spoken folks

to contemplate much less engage.

Maybe we can take some of the pressure off by saying that we don’t have to do this

in order to “save folks for Christ” in a traditional sense.

We have to do this because it’s how we get to know people

and speak of things that really matter in our lives.

Like how we got through some of our personal rough patches

and how we keep our heads and hearts together when life is challenging.

Learning how to have these conversations takes practice,

but we don’t have to have theologically weighty conversations.

Often when I think of some of the points along my faith walk,

I laugh out loud and roll my eyes.

However we start sharing our faith, let us do so.

The vitality of this specific church and the Church universal needs us to be

the hands and feet and mouth through which God,

in Jesus Christ, and by way of the Holy Spirit, flows into this world.

Lord, give us the strength to follow your invitation.

Amen.

1 + 1 + 1 = One!

Trinity Sunday, sermon preached at Two Rock Valley Presbyterian and Tomales Presbyterian Churches on May 26, 2024

Today’s sermon title comes from a Dennis-the-Menace cartoon that

my Gram sent me years ago.

Unfortunately, the actual newspaper clipping has gone by the wayside.

I don’t remember the exact cartoon scenario, but I do remember that equation.

I’m no mathematician, but I don’t think it adds up, 1 + 1 + 1 = 1?!,

at least not in the traditional sense.

It is, however, a perfect ‘object lesson’ as we think about the Trinity.

Because the Trinity doesn’t add up in a logical sense either.

We all know that there are three members in the Christian Godhead

Creator God

Jesus Christ

Holy Spirit

Understanding how these three are actually One, however, is confounding.

To add insult to injury, the Bible never mentions the Trinity … not even once.

We are told often about God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit,

(or Advocate as the Gospel of John called Her last week … and I am using Her intentionally, but as that could be a sermon in and of itself, I’m not even going to touch on that today).

Needless-to-say, the Trinity is a Holy Mystery that I suspect few of us want to explain.

The doctrine of the Trinity is arrived at by looking at the whole of Scripture,

not a single Chapter or Verse.

And so once a year, we embark on an interesting journey …

a quest to more fully know this Holy Mystery.

The Reverend Shannon Johnson Kershner,

Senior Pastor at Central Presbyterian Church in Atlanta, Georgia

does an admirable job of summing up the complexity of the Trinity

with the following statement:

When we confess belief in the Triune God,

we are making the radical claim that somehow,

  • the same God who created life out of chaos also walked the earth as Jesus.
  • We are claiming that the one who experienced crucifixion, at the same time experienced the death of a beloved child.
  • We are claiming that the one who ascended into heaven, is the same one who is always with us.
  • We are claiming that the one who prays for us at the right hand of the Father, is the same one groaning deep within our souls for the redemption of creation.
  • When we say we believe in a triune God, we are boldly claiming that the active God of the past, is an on-the-move God who is acting now and will act in the future, until all has been reconciled and made new.”

That is a lot to digest … I can barely wrap my head around it,

and yet I know deep down in my bones that Rev. Shannon is absolutely right!

Our academic-oriented Presbyterian denomination wants me to explain this.

As proud as I am to have weathered my four-year Master of Divinity program 20 years ago,

a program that insisted I learn two dead languages …

(‘dead’ because biblical Hebrew & Greek are different then current day Hebrew & Greek),

I don’t agree that staying in our heads and explaining it is particularly helpful.

Now to be fair, a good many of us humans do live in our heads,

but I’ve been around the block a few times and even the most cerebral of us

do not really understand life up in our heads.

Richard Rohr, Franciscan Friar and author says that the

“Trinity leads you into the world of mystery and humility,

where you cannot understand, … you can only experience.”

I agree with him.

Head knowledge only goes so far … what really teaches is experience.

That’s when the rubber hits the road …

that’s when we really have a chance to ‘get it!’

Maybe this is why are invited to hear the call story of Isaiah this Sunday.

This call story, in which a six-winged seraph comes at a would-be prophet

holding tongs full of hot coals to purify his lips

is probably not something we’d be wise to attempt to understand,

at least not in the traditional sense.

It is, however, certainly a colorful description of a call from the Divine.

Isaiah’s response illuminates our text from Romans,

because Isaiah allows the Spirit of God to lead him, rather than be enslaved to the flesh.

… Now, I’m going to digress for a moment,

because I can’t let you all leave here thinking the flesh is bad …

it isn’t, not in the way this text often gets interpreted.

The Greek word for flesh (sax) is different than the word for body (soma).

The Apostle Paul, who wrote the book of Romans,

is not advocating fleeing life in the flesh in favor of existing purely on a spiritual plane,

as it is sometimes misinterpreted.

To be enslaved to the flesh as Paul is writing means to be enslaved to anything

that resists God and is probably more aptly referring to sin.

So, Isaiah is allowing God to work in him (including his human flesh),

rather than remain in sin and resist God’s spirit.

And Isaiah’s openness to God, his willingness to be unified with God’s will,

might give us a taste of the relationship within the Holy Trinity,

which enjoys perfect harmony within itself.

This is different mind you then the Greek gods for whom there has to be a Zeus

who can dominate the other lesser gods.

What does all of this mean for us?

What might the relational style of our Christian God mean for us as children of God?

If God, in God’s very essence, is a mutually interdependent relationship,

which is so seemless that three persons are actually one entity,

what does that mean for us, who have been created in God’s image?

Might this inform the kind of relationships God calls us to have?

Would it look like the divisions we see currently in our political landscape?

Would it look like the broken communities we see in the church,

whether between Christian denominations or individuals in the same church/family?

It appears that God, by example, which really is the best teaching tool around,

is showing us what true relationship really looks like.

The Trinity invites us to consider that we don’t just exist beside each other,

we aren’t supposed to just love each other,

rather we deeply need each other.

Did you hear me? Let me say that again:

We deeply need each other to be fully human!

In order to be Christ’s body (the Church) we cannot exist on our own, in isolation.

In order to really live out our identity as children of God,

in order to live as baptized people,

we are called to be in honest relationships with each other,

as brothers and sisters in Christ.

We must share one another’s burdens, i.e. weep when one of us weeps, …

and rejoice when one of us rejoices.

Does that mean we have to see the Word (Scripture) the same way,

respond to the world (planet Earth and its inhabitants) in like fashion,

and believe the same things?

No. No! No!!

Our Trinitarian God makes it clear that we all have different expressions in the world.

The key is that we recognize the gifts each one of us brings to the whole

and that we remember, without our various expressions,

we are not a complete body of Christ.

This sounds like a big task, and on some level it is.

But it doesn’t have to show up in a flashy way.

Baptist pastor and author Tony Campolo told a story of what it might look like

to let the spirit of God drive our actions.

He tells of a Church Deacon who took a youth group to a nursing home once a month.

The Deacon was apparently reluctant and coached heavily by his pastor ….

The Deacon liked to say he was only the driver for a bunch of kids who couldn’t drive yet.

But he went. Regularly.

On one occasion an old man in a wheelchair rolled over to the Deacon,

took his hand and held it during the whole youth-led worship service.

That small action was repeated the next month and the next month and the next month.

Then one Sunday afternoon the old man in the wheelchair

wasn’t in the fellowship hall when they arrived,

so of course, the Deacon asked about his friend.

“Where is that man?”

“Oh,” the nurse said, “He’s just down the hall in the third room.

He’s unconscious, near death, but I know he’d love it if you’d visit him.”

Of course, the Deacon went. While holding the man’s hand, the Deacon said a prayer,

and when the Deacon said Amen, the old man squeezed his hand.

This made the Deacon cry.

Embarrassed, he started to leave the room as the nurse entered the room.

“He’s been waiting for you,” she said.

“I told him that after death he would meet Jesus and talk to Jesus and hold Jesus’ hand.

But he said, No. Once a month Jesus comes here and holds my hand

and I don’t want to leave until I have the chance to hold Jesus’ hand once more.”

If we yield to the Spirit,

there are important things that God wants to do in us and through us.

They may be simple,

but that does not mean they aren’t earth-shatteringly important.

May we follow God’s call.

May we notice the gift this brings others and maybe even sometimes ourselves.

With our Creator God who continually molds us,

Christ who ever walks beside us,

and the Spirit who breathes life into us,

we are given the opportunity to be in union with our Trinitarian God.

1 + 1 + 1 really DOES = 1!

Amen.

Commanding Love

Preaching on John 15:9-17 at Two Rock Valley and Tomales Presbyterian Churches

I was visiting a good friend the other day.

She had just come from seeing her brand-new, first-born grandson at the hospital.

As soon as I arrived and heard the good news,

she enthusiastically beckoned me to come take a look at his photo on her phone screen.

She said, “I know they all look the same at first,

but isn’t he just the most adorable baby you’ve ever seen?”

In moments like this, with enthusiasm and joy oozing out of us,

it seems like the easiest thing in the world to love one another.

This is a nice reminder on Mother’s Day …

to think about how much love we feel

as we welcome these sweet little ones into our lives.

Truly, babies and puppies seem to bring out the best in most people.

That is unless we are in what I like to call “a moment.”

As life would have it, I came across one of Garrison Keillor’s old radio monologues

about the birth of his daughter while I drove home from my friend’s house.

He waxed eloquent on how smitten he was with her from the very first sight

of her bright little eyes and long delicate fingers.

And how, although that love persisted, it was challenged somewhat,

when only a few days later he was jolted awake from a deep sleep,

for the umpteenth time, at the sound of her siren call,

which apparently adhered to Australian standard time.

And so, bleary eyed he picked her up, slung the drool rag over his shoulder,

and walked the floor exhausted, stained with milk, borderline crazy,

and clearly a person no one would ever hire to look after an infant.

I guess maybe this is why Jesus might need to command us to love one another,

as he does in today’s gospel lesson from the book of John.

Love is deep, but even with our most loved ones, the feeling can be fleeting at times.

In today’s text, Jesus is addressing his disciples in one of his farewell discourses.

Even though it may seem like we just celebrated the Resurrection at Easter,

during the Season of Easter we oddly revisit Jesus’ earthly life

and so in this passage he is facing the time of his death … again.

Although Jesus forewarns of this over and over,

his disciples don’t seem to take notice.

Now, because we live on this side of the resurrection,

hopefully we can hear them with a little more gravitas,

but in reality this is about the time that most folks’ attention has just waned during a sermon,

so if you are dozing off on me, please try to plug back in 😉

Listen to these words as you might listen to a loved one on their death bed …

words that you want to take in and savor and remember for months and years to come.

It’s of course not always the case,

but often these last moments in life are ripe with poignancy …

I am thinking of an older person who has lived a long life,

maybe a parent who is still trying to offer some life-earned wisdom,

or leave us with an important last message to carry forward in our lives.

There is urgency in Jesus’ words, as he attempts to break through to these friends of his;

and his message bears repeating, this command to love one another,

which He does five times in this short passage from the Gospel of John.

You see, Jesus knows the disciples are headed into a time much more trying

then a sleepless night with a demanding infant;

they are going to be facing his death, … a horrific, painful, and frightening one.

It is one of his last attempts to impress upon them his central guiding life message:

“Love one another, as I have loved you.”

Those eight little words are what true religious observance is for him;

it encompasses all of life and it is what he came here to do.

Some have argued that you could condense the entire Christian Bible …

all 66 books and 1189 chapters … down to this simple statement.

What does it mean to love one another as Jesus has loved us?

Well for one thing it means acting on love

even when we are not experiencing the feelings of love.

My friend welcoming her new grandson was feeling the love;

Garrison Keillor in his sleep deprived state was acting on it.

As we all know, it can be challenging to act on love

when we aren’t quite in touch with those intoxicating feelings of love.

Anyone who has lost sleep night after night to take care of a baby

(or a sick loved one) knows this.

The love is there underneath all the fatigue,

but when you are that tired you can’t really feel much of anything other than crazy,

which is why I am sure that God made babies so cute.

It’s also why we all keep photos of our best days with loved ones

scattered around our homes, saved on our phones and the like …

we need to remember the good times, in the midst of the not so very good ones.

But even in those trying moments, acting with love for those we do love is one thing;

it is far more challenging to act with love when faced with a stranger.

And yet this is what Jesus is asking us to do.

Now, sometimes the stranger is our loved one … how could they just have said or done that?

But sometimes, it is a complete stranger that Jesus is calling us to love …

someone for whom we have no past reference and to whom we have no commitment.

You see, the word friends as Jesus is using it, might better be translated as strangers,

because Jesus is calling us to love his friends, not ours.

The friends Jesus is calling us to love includes all those who Jesus welcomed

in his own daily comings and goings,

i.e. tax collectors, prostitutes, and contagiously ill people.

This love is not contingent upon our likes and dislikes, our values and beliefs;

it is not necessarily a call to agree with ‘the other.’

His call is to act with love for all of God’s creation, whether we feel like it or not.

Now that’s a tall order. Especially given our current days,

which maybe aren’t worse than in Jesus’ day,

but since we can’t compare it doesn’t really matter.

These are tragically tough days in our world.

I called a friend who lives in Paris this week

to ask her if the wheels were falling off the bus in Europe too.

Perpetual optimist that she is, Colleen said

“No, we’re okay here … what’s going on there, Lis?”

So I told her …

Well, for one I think everyone, no matter what their political persuasion,

is on edge in this election year when once again we have

two older white men running to be our U.S. President.

“I think it’s making us all crazy, Colleen … people are behaving so badly!”

And then I told her about the two attempted suicides

and one house fire in our little churches this week.

If you haven’t heard, this happened.

One of the suicides was successful, we lost a 21-year-old young man this week.

The other was not successful,

but the 50-something may almost wish he had been successful,

even if his attempt was more of a call for help than an actual desire.

On the heels of learning more fully about both of these situations, I called my son John.

I have a modicum of faith at this point, a modicum I said, so these situations rattle me,

(as I suspect they rattle you too) …

and so I wanted to hear my son’s voice, for some reassurance.

You know we moms may appear to have it all together … and we do,

but we still need to hear our littles and know that they are okay.

And he was, thanks be to God. It gave me a little extra strength.

I was listening to some music this morning …

I won’t play the song, as I’ve been want to do from the pulpit,

but I will read you the lyrics, because they spoke to me.

The song is called Winter, by Tori Amos and the refrain goes like this …

“When you gonna make up your mind?

When you gonna love you as much as I do?

When you gonna make up your mind?

Because things are going to change so fast …”

I think Jesus is saying this to us today … well, every day really.

“My people … Love one another, family, friend, and stranger alike

… and don’t forget to love yourself …

as I love you.

Do so, and things are going to change so fast.

As in get infinitely better.

Do this, Dear Ones.

Please.”

Amen.